bluenightowl Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 I've seen a lot of discussion around those seeking a LTR taking their time to date.. over months not days or weeks.. and holding off on sex in some cases. Do you agree?
LoveandSuch Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 I do not wish for a LTR and would still be quite weary who shares my goods.
LoveandSuch Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 Meant leary. This rule goes for all friendships.
grkBoy Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 I've seen a lot of discussion around those seeking a LTR taking their time to date.. over months not days or weeks.. and holding off on sex in some cases. Do you agree? In some cases, yeah. The thing some have to realize is some guys or women now will wait 3-6 dates and such to get laid. They're not as slick as a playa who will try to manipulate someone into bed the first night. To me it's not a question of time, but of how both look at this. I think if a woman really is into a guy and sleeps with him on date 2, the guy is a fool to suddenly "dismiss" her as "unworthy". Come on. For all the gripes guys have about women withholding sex in a RL, why complain about the woman who wants to bang you and yet be your girlfriend? So much stupidity and "special rules" people try to make. One can't make this scientific. I had a woman in my past who slept with me on the FIRST DATE, and I was willing and trying to build a RL out of it. She went psycho after a month though and things fell apart. I didn't see the first date sex as "oh she's not worthy anymore", but simply that she was into me and wanted to be with me. Why question that? Why is everyone so afraid now to take risks and such?
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