Jamone Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 Hello LS I've been doing a lot of reading on the boards today and thought i'd throw this out to get some views... Is it possible to fall in love again with the same person after a breakup? I've been reading where many ppl have said they'd take their exs back if they changed their habits, etc. but even if they have changed their habits does that mean that you will again feel the way you did when first fell in love? personally i've never looked back and i don't think/know if i ever will after splitting with someone. I put it down to experience and enter new relationships armed with what i've learned from previous relationships in order not to make the same mistakes again. I also use my past experiences to know what to look out for and what to avoid like the plague! So speaking of second chances, can one totally fall in love all over again with the same person if they were given a second chance? tell me what you think.
leoc1973 Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 Well I have been there. Me and my ex were totally in love. I had some bad habits not like drugs or anything but I was quite lazy and all I wanted to do is play video games. She got sick of it and left me. We were apart for 3 months and she realized that she couldn't live without me. I at the same time got off my ass. I started working out and went back to school. I showed her that I really could change. I was just in a huge rut. When we got back together it was better than the first time. I had never been so happy in my life and I truely feel she felt the same way. For about 2 years we were so in love that I can't explain it. I never felt so "home" in my life. Lots of bad breaks my mom getting sick didn't have the money to finish school ect. she got offered a dream job in a city 300 miles away and left. I don't know if she means it or not but she tells me to come join her someday when I am in a better situation. She tells me I am her soulmate and we are meant to be together but just not right now. I don't know but I wish she had never left. So to answer your question yes you can fall in love with the same person again. I think we are still very in love and someday ya never know. Talk to any old couple and you will probably learn that they had been apart at some point too. Thats what second chances are for! That not looking back thing is just pigheadedness and you might have thrown away some great people. Every one deserves at least one second chance.
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