GG3 Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 Has anyone ever dated a guy who tries to follow alpha-male seduction strategies? One of them being, "Leave them wanting more?" I did and I'm wondering how many guys are reading things like this and trying to do them.
grkBoy Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 Has anyone ever dated a guy who tries to follow alpha-male seduction strategies? One of them being, "Leave them wanting more?" I did and I'm wondering how many guys are reading things like this and trying to do them. I see plenty of insecure girls date these guys, desperate to get him to commit. I think for guys wondering if the PUA techniques work, bear in mind women like men who are relaxed, confident, and have a life outside of her. In the past when I met women I'd be all planned and ready to call her, take her out, try to impress her and win her heart. Failed every time. With my current GF, I walked into it all with no expectations. I was being guarded and simply decided I'd wait a few weeks and see when she flips out, goes psycho, or flakes on me. She never did. I think with her, she saw me as loose, confident, relaxed, and immersed in my own personal life. I gave her attention and interest, but I didn't suddenly make my life about getting her. She ended up being the one chasing me because it came off as if I could walk away tomorrow and not miss her or feel down. It's not a game...just remember women like men who have a life, are interesting, loose, confident, and relaxed. Show up to dates in a happy, charming manner, but try to fix your brain on just the night. Don't worry about if she'll want to see you again or not. Show up with no expectations in your mind. Have fun, be loose, and let her like you naturally...rather than you trying to convince her to like you.
somedude81 Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 Leave her/him wanting more is about being a tease. Don't give them everything they want right away. Hold some back so that they would want more. This is a technique that many women have masted, men should be able to do it as well.
dispatch3d Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 It's all about doing the opposite of everything one-goal does. Rest assured, if you're pullin a "one-goal" move you're probably ****ed lol!
somedude81 Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 It's all about doing the opposite of everything one-goal does. Rest assured, if you're pullin a "one-goal" move you're probably ****ed lol! Eh, I'm pretty sure one goal has a mental illness where he's unable to think of the consequences of his actions. So he does whatever his first thought is. Obviously most people don't do things that way. That's probably enough about him and any further talk would be off-topic.
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