springbourne Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 I live with this girl in her house, she's married but her husband told her 4 months ago that he wasn't sure what he wanted etc etc and she's been in limbo since! A couple of days ago we had a little too much to drink, had a really fun night and ended up having sex all night. For some extra context there was lots of kissing, smiling, general happiness as well as some good ole' f'kin. The next morning when we first woke up was the same....until just before we left for work I went to kiss her and she pulled away..I said I'd had fun, she said that she had too and I left for work. That night we talked a little and she said that she didn't regret our night, had more fun than she ever had before but didn't want it to continue in the hope she could still salvage her marriage. Now tonight we're going out to a comedy gig, my question is this: Do I keep her laughing and flirting, touch her, keep the sexual talk going as if the game is still on OR do I give her the cold shoulder a bit and hope she realises what a gap there might be if I'm not around. I do like her a lot, it'd be great if it worked out but if her marriage has a chance of working then I understand that she'd try and make it work...she still keeps making eye contact and smiling, looks away coyly and accepted hugs etc which I took to potentially mean she's just using me too. Any thoughts and advice for both tonight and the days that follow would be most appreciated.
bama_bbq Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 I would not initiate the flirting, etc. If she's interested in repeating what you guys did, she'll probably indicate it, and then you could maybe try to escalate. But the pullaway sounds like she's not sure about it.
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