whoahman07 Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 so long story short i have been seeing this girl for 4 months now. originally we just though it would be a thing but we grew and got emotionally attached. she has her moments where she pushes away but that is because she says she is scared of commitment due to the hurt factor and she just wants to roll with it. after talking with her she has pointed out that once the fall semester comes around she is going to be extemely busy and might cut me off. she has told me that she likes me alot and can see herself with me. she says im perfect for her in every way but i think she just doesnt want to be bf/gf cuz it wont be fair to either of us with her busy schedule. she says she still wants to see what happens but i get this feeling that she has already made up her mind to end it in a couple weeks and if we hook up during the semester it happens....how do i keep her interest level high enough with me so that the spark will remain till her life isnt too busy for a relationship. should i just continue my fwb pattern with her and try to not get attached. help please!!!!!!!!
HardknockLife Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 I am sorry but that is just a lame excuse. If a person who loves you from the bottom of their heart, no matter what comes in their way. He\she should not put you aside. She doesn;t want to tell you that she doesnt want you, but she is giving you a lame excuse. I would say don't wait around for someone who doesn;t even think about keeping you around.
Zaphod B Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 Yeah, sounds like blatant insincerity to me. She doesn't want you anymore, but doesn't want to crush your heart either. Seems as though she just doesn't have the guts to be honest.
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