catface Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 been seeing 24 year old lad for a few weeks and I am 28. I just was in bed with him like a hour ago and we was talking about how many partners we have had in past I revealled I had slept with two of his friends...a long time ago!!! he got up and said, nice knowing you and saying he will beat one up wtf? is he immature or is this a normal reaction for a man to take if he found out this? not like I have cheated? plus hes texting another girl. just would like to know if men hate this? he said he will neveret over it. hes just text saying found a girl I really like and shes slept with half my mates...?!!! thanks people. much love x
Hot Chick Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 What is the background of your relationship? Was it a casual fling when you just slept with him, or have you been seeing him for a while? I feel it was a bad idea to have a discussion after you just had sex with the guy about other guys in your past that you slept with. Personally, I never share numbers and names with guys I am dating. After I've dated a man a while, it might come up about a past relationship, but it will be barely mentioning it. So...next time you go to bed with a guy, do not have a discussion about who you have slept with in your past. Hold off on such a discussion for quite a while and you don't even mention it if possible. An example is "I lived with a guy once" just to let a guy know that you have taken it to the "live together" stage before, but that's about it.
youngskywalker Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 'Mum's the word' when it comes to previous relationships with men whom your current fling has ties with. Live and learn.
youngskywalker Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 Personally, I never share.... names with guys I am dating. Exactly. Please don't rattle off the names of guys you've slept with. It's between you and them. I'd rather not know.
refurb Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 Think of it this way: how impressive is it to have something that all your friends have too? RF
Author catface Posted August 3, 2011 Author Posted August 3, 2011 yes but ive not cheated whys he so pissed
Nukulus Posted August 3, 2011 Posted August 3, 2011 Technically you did nothing wrong, you didn't cheat or anything like that. However, no guy wants his friends sloppy seconds. It might not make sense in practical terms ( i mean everyone is someones sloppy seconds unless they're a virgin), but it's just not something guys want to think about. You shouldn't have mentioned names is all.
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