steven seagal Posted August 2, 2011 Posted August 2, 2011 Ive been with my girlfriend for like seven months, but weve known each other for years.. All thru the relationship ive felt 110% trusting of her, adore her presence, cant think of a bad thing to say about her. But recently she has had some major family issues. i felt i was understanding and respectful that she wanted space.. we used to hang out almost every night (which was hard because i worked 2 jobs) but last few weeks it was sparse.. shed get mad at the world (not me) and shut down for the night. wouldnt hear from her. next day would be fine. i have in my opinion done everything i could.. if she had a need in her life i provided, i got her a job, i play alarm clock every morning calling her to make sure she makes her appointments be it class or work.. heres where it maybe gets a little complicated.. when i was in the military i was considering a "paper marriage" to reap the monitary benefits. someone who lived 2000 miles away that i had never even met except thru a service buddy of mine but never in person. i exited the military without ever fulfilling any type of marriage other then entertaining the notion of more money. a rotten thing to try i realize now but it never happened. about a year after i was out the "paper" ex came out to my home state to meet. we had dinner once or twice and she went home. far far away. then her sisters husband raped her and she decided she had to leave. she thought my home state was awesome from her visit and moved. now there was never a romance or otherwise, just a financial agreement. a year later my current girlfriend finds out and was pretty angry with me that the paper ex had moved here knowing only me. understandable, it does look somewhat compromising. we talked it out, i thought everything was ok. last weeked (a few weeks after that "fight") the paper ex was offered a pretty good job in her home state. before she left she sent me a text if i wanted to buy some of her stuff so she didnt have to pack it across several states. i bought some stuff. earlier that day my girlfriend said that she would text me when she could. 6 hours later i decided to text her, she was at work all day, not worried about the silence. i tell her i bought some stuff and now she is pissed. i bought her some presents wrote her a letter, got her to talk to me. we were going to have a discussion about why she was upset and our relationship yesterday. my mother is on my phone plan, and went to get a new simcard for her phone. they screwed up and assigned my number to her simcard and she then recieved all my calls and texts, but had no names to the numbers, and thinking she was on her phone number texts them all back "i dont know who this is sorry" one was my girlfriend who blew up, said "dont ever f***ing talk to me again." wouldnt answer my calls. drove up to her house, she runs to my car tellin me to" get the f*** out." today she will literally not even look at me (we work together, probably a mistake on my part, but she has always been so logical and level headed i would have NEVER expected anything like this in the 6 or so years ive known her) is there even a chance? it beaks my heart everything was good until about 3 weeks ago. granted her family life has been hell recently but.. should i keep fighting this seeming uphill battle?
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