sunshine88 Posted August 2, 2011 Posted August 2, 2011 So my Fiancee and I have been together a year and a half. He has nearly always cheated on his past gfs etc but has never proposed to someone beforeso I thought this meant he had changed and finally grown up...he is now nearly 25. When we first got together but wasn't going out as bf/gf (only for like 2 weeks getting to know eachother etc) there was a photo of a girl from our village on his PC which I thought was odd as I knew the girl but wasn't sure he did. I asked him about it and he said that he was told this girl fancied him so he saved her photo from FB so he could 'show his mate to see if he knew who she was'..... this i didnt belive and thought he maybe fancied her etc but that was over a yr ago now. This sarah girl had again cropped up where the local restaurant owner said to my fiancee infront of me 'ur gf came in today ahaha' meaning this sarah as apparently she still fancies him. I know this sarah so i asked her outright what this was about. She completely denied even knowing of by BF and had never even heard of his name....hmmm.... Anyway to cut a long story short...My fiancee now has a lock on his comp that he lets no1 know....not even me.... My mate suggested making a fake FB account pretending to be this Sarah (bit much I know!) and see what he does. So......i did. I just wrote to my BF pretending to this Sarah saying 'Why r u lying to Claire?x'.....This was about 4 hrs ago....now all of a sudden my BF is being extra nice to me texting me sayin hes buying us some wine and cheese for tonight. He has been a bit offish lately so I replied 'fab babe, how come ur being so nice?x' and he replied 'I have been sleeping around and i feel bad now lol x'..................................... I just replied 'Lol see u soon.x' Right so hes made that into a joke.....but is it one? He hasnt yet replied to 'Sarah' on FB or told me about the message...... What do u think?xx
cutily Posted August 2, 2011 Posted August 2, 2011 The first thing I could tell you is don't get married before another 2 or 3 years!! It seems like you and your boyfriend are way too immature to even think about taking the responsibilities a marriage put on your shoulders. You need to talk a lot, and just from the way I see it it's just a boyfriend/girlfriend childish relationship. Yes grow up a little more for both of you to know if it's such a good idea to be together.
PegNosePete Posted August 2, 2011 Posted August 2, 2011 This might seem like a bit of a weird and unusual suggestion. But why don't you try talking to your husband to be? Ask him why he put a password on his computer. He who has nothing to hide, hides nothing. If that's a joke, it's a bit of a stupid one. I would be inclined to take this as the truth but he's trying to disguise it as a joke to slip it by you. Most likely he realized that "Sarah" on FB was you immediately so his guard went right up. Yes you both sound totally immature.
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