TaintedHeart Posted August 2, 2011 Posted August 2, 2011 Ok so I've been away, which really helped and cleared my head and I can honestly say I have been dealing wih everything pretty well. I didn't have access to the internet which I actually loved! So I came home yesterday and thought 'The first thing I'm going to do when I get home is delete Facebook Or shall I call it 'Evilbook' So I went to delete it today to find the whole of my newfeed taken up with pictures of my ex having an 'Amazing' time and being all flirty with someone in her statues ect. I thought I'd be a mess, but I wasn't, I didn't feel anything! Why is that?? I still want to close my account but the pictures were only added last night and if I close my account now she will obvioulsly think it's because of the pictures and I really don't want her to think that, she has a big enough ego as it is. So what shall I do? Give it a week? This may seem pretty silly I know:(
sleepykitten Posted August 5, 2011 Posted August 5, 2011 Glad it didnt upset you too much, I would wait a week, like you said you dont want her to think its because of her, but only do it this way if you are sure you wont keep going back and having a look at them this week. If you find you do, then delete, block, close, whatever, it doesnt matter what she thinks, it only matters you do whats best for you.
Mack05 Posted August 5, 2011 Posted August 5, 2011 (edited) Tainted I am really glad you have made so much progress. For me, I wouldn't give a monkeys nut sack what my ex thought. I would do what was best for me. I think people tend to focus on "what would my ex think". My point is it doesn't matter what she thinks/feels. Your feelings and how you are healing are all that matters.. Edited August 5, 2011 by Mack05
smudge21 Posted August 5, 2011 Posted August 5, 2011 Tainted I am really glad you have made so much progress. For me, I wouldn't give a monkeys nut sack what my ex thought. I would do what was best for me. I think people tend to focus on "what would my ex think". My point is it doesn't matter what she thinks/feels. Your feelings and how you are healing are all that matters.. Quoted for truth. Although you feel nothing now, I know how these things work and those pictures could slowly get to you. Don't give it a second thought and just stick to what you originally intended to do.
radiodarcy Posted August 5, 2011 Posted August 5, 2011 i agree with the previous posters. who cares what your ex thinks? do what's best for you. even if she does call you out on it via text msg or whatever, you're in NC so it's not like you have to respond either way
Author TaintedHeart Posted August 5, 2011 Author Posted August 5, 2011 Tainted I am really glad you have made so much progress. For me, I wouldn't give a monkeys nut sack what my ex thought. I would do what was best for me. I think people tend to focus on "what would my ex think". My point is it doesn't matter what she thinks/feels. Your feelings and how you are healing are all that matters.. Monkeys nut sack, Ha! That made me laugh! Well people, I deleted it and feel much better in doing so, Facebook and other social networking sites are trouble, I'm sure I'm an old fashioned lady stuck in a young ladies body! Thanks for your thoughts
Chi townD Posted August 5, 2011 Posted August 5, 2011 GOOD FOR YOU!!! Who gives a damn what your Ex thinks! Someone else's problem now.
Author TaintedHeart Posted August 5, 2011 Author Posted August 5, 2011 GOOD FOR YOU!!! Who gives a damn what your Ex thinks! Someone else's problem now. Thank you
smudge21 Posted August 5, 2011 Posted August 5, 2011 Whenever you feel yourself slipping, just re-read this or post again.
CaliBabe Posted August 5, 2011 Posted August 5, 2011 good for you tainted, you are healing! i would just keep the facebook and not go on it, that way if you delete it you dont look like it was because of the photos. simply remain inactive on it. keep up the good work my friend!
Author TaintedHeart Posted August 6, 2011 Author Posted August 6, 2011 good for you tainted, you are healing! i would just keep the facebook and not go on it, that way if you delete it you dont look like it was because of the photos. simply remain inactive on it. keep up the good work my friend! I've deleted it, like everyone is saying, I shouldn't care what she thinks and I don't
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