ThroneH Posted August 2, 2011 Posted August 2, 2011 So I was in a relationship with a girl for about 8 months. About 4 months in, we both agreed that neither of us should ever be with anyone else. She said she has never felt that way about someone before, and didn't ever to be with anyone else. After 8 months it turned to **** of course, because she said she didn't have those same feelings for me anymore. I got over it pretty quickly. We've been friends ever since, but it has been very much a love hate friendship. I'd always end up saying stuff that would hurt her, alot. Whenever we fight, she'd go on about how much i've hurt her, since we've met. Yet she ALWAYS keeps on forgiving me because she says she cares for me too much. She says she keeps telling herself not to forgive me and be friends with me anymore, but she can't help it. For a month I started treating her differently, in a good way. She even mentioned this to me. I played a rather "distant" role and didn't seem to be so...needy to her etc, started being alot nicer and played it "cool" instead of the overreacting, worrying person I really am. I even started talking about a new girl I met that I found rather attractive and kind of liked. Ever since I've said that, she's been talking to me non stop and wanting to hang out. One day she said she has feelings for one of my friends that she barely even knows... I went off at her when she told me this, as I was ridiculously jealous. I called her names, told her to go to hell etc. I couldn't help it, I was so mad and hurt. Of course, this hurt her too. But she continues to forgive me, no matter how much I hurt her. And she says she can't help it. She says she knows she should cut me out of her life, but just can't, because she cares about me too much. She's always stood by the right side of me, and I actually really respect that. Could this mean she still has some feelings for me, but might not know it yet? Because I'm wondering why she doesn't stay mad at me for long and forgive me like nothing happened, even when I say the most hurtful things. She's a very hard girl to work out. Thanks.
GG3 Posted August 2, 2011 Posted August 2, 2011 She's hard to figure out? Why are you focused on figuring her out? How about focus on why you treat her so poorly? My guess is she cares about your friendship and doesn't want to let it go.
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