weeble78 Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 Ok so BF and I have been arguing recently, and trying to stay out of each oher's way. He's just started a new job - and told me various stories about not being able to give me his work email address (we always email at work). I know for a fact he has an email address (he's emailed his friends) and therefore that he's lying. Do I (a) cut him some slack because we've been rowing loads and he clearly wants a bit of space (we live together); Or (b) call him out on it and tell him I know he's lying. And get mad because he'd lie to my face?
analystfromhell Posted August 2, 2011 Posted August 2, 2011 III: maybe text back and forth or get phones with a data plan? If he doesn't want to give you his work email address but you know what it is, why not be silent about it and just get the addy and email him a surprise message (be outside for lunch or something).
CeeJ Posted August 15, 2011 Posted August 15, 2011 You'll probably feel crappy if you go with option #1, and nothing positive or productive will get accomplished if you go with option #2. Why not just tell him that you understand if he is trying to keep your bickering/fighting out of his work life, but it really hurts your feelings/upsets you/fill in the blank that he would lie to you instead of tell the truth.
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