yolatanga Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 I finally let a guy near me after an 8 yr break up, 9 mos later. He is divorced, 2 kids, an ex gf he was with for two yrs. He is a hot mess. We have such a great time together and incredible chemistry. It is out of control. We can barely keep our hands off each other. The sex is crazy hot. Now it gets complicated. We live in the same complex and hang out with the same group of friends. We really like each other. Every time we get close, he pulls back soon after. It drives me bonkers. He makes plans and cancels at the last second. We communicate via text which I hate. He waits to answer my ?s when he sees me which lately has been often. I have told him to go away since he warns me that he is not good to get involved with. He always comes back and pulls back again. I told him I am keeping my options open. He invites me over, we have sex and he starts again with his unemotionally unavailable bs. Give me a break already!! Today I told him that we should enjoy the time we have together and relax. He didn't answer that one, but another about something else. Now what do I do?
LoveandSuch Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 If you can enjoy the hot sex with no strings and emotions, stick with it. If not, he is disrespecting you, dump him.
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