Author resscress Posted August 3, 2011 Author Posted August 3, 2011 So like, you called his family, they said they didn't know he didn't contact you for 2-3 weeks now, and than what? You hang up? Didn't you ask them to put him on the phone? Go nag them, tell them you demand some answers! If he's there and they don't wanna let him speak to you, than you know for sure it's over, otherwise you can either push hard or forget about it (if it's not that important to you). Also, how long have you 2 been together? How old are you anyway? Thank your for your reply. I called his family yes but i didnt hang up. I did asked them where he is. he never stay with his family of course. And they told me he is of course in his new place because i mention he's been posted . And theres more story to tell about me calling his family.. its just that its takes more space to type here and i thought its not necessary to say more in here on how did the call of his family turns up. Of course they dont know what that he's been acting that way and beside his dad passed away already and his mom is not in good health too. all i get to talk to is his brother. All i need here is maybe some words to make me feel better because i know most of us here is looking for some words to apply when our world is upside down. We've been in a relationship for almost 2 years..
Author resscress Posted August 3, 2011 Author Posted August 3, 2011 Tell him also in a message that you just want him to call you and if he wants to end the wedding or relationship, its okay, but you need to know NOW so no more money is wasted. I already told him that. I message him that no matter what happen he should at least tell me. And i told him i respect his decision ...just talk to me about it. Thanks
Author resscress Posted August 3, 2011 Author Posted August 3, 2011 Oh I'm sorry, I read in your original post that you are in a LDR with your fiance. Do you think he might have lost his job and is embarrassed to admit that to you? We only get to LDR when he's been relocated. But we both knew we will be together after the wedding. I dont know what really happen because when we last talk on phone we never had any argument, And to be honest we didnt have any argument at all since were together. I always try to give in whenever were discussing things in our relationship because i love him. And i dont really know what went wrong because he is not communicating to me right now.
Author resscress Posted August 3, 2011 Author Posted August 3, 2011 Can you show up to his parents' house? You said he went home to his parents', right? I think this warrants stopping by in person. I mean this man is your fiance, so you should go see what is going on! I will do that maybe soon if i still dont hear from him. I will give him few more days. And if he dont call me still or meet me up to talk on whats bothering him then i will just end it and not hope anymore. I cant force someone to marry me because his feelings for me is gone or whatever reason he has. God help me i wish i knew the real reason....
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