Sugarkane Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 Some friends have invited me out and I really wanted to go. Then I realised its where my assclown ex often goes. I haven't seen/talked to my ex since we brokeup a year ago. As he dumped and insulted me by text, after a year of dating I really feel like saying something to the Ahole's face. What I never got to do.
SillyS Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 I would go and have a lot of fun, dress in that great dress that shows off my curves correctly and say absolutely nothing to him. You know words would take away from that, so letting someone that at some point hurt you see that you are still standing, that you are still smiling and still looking great is def more powerful than words. So that's what I would do. Go, look great, and say nothing to him.
smudge21 Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 Less is more - in other words, not saying anything will hurt him more. Just being polite as if you no longer care, that would be best. By showing an emotion (even if it is anger) it shows you still have emotions due to him. It may not seem like that to you, but his mind will twist it round and he'll convince himself you only smashed a chair over his head cos you still love him (us guys are just as confusing as you girls). Just walk on by - make the loser believe you don't even remember his name anymore. A polite hello will suffice, and if somehow he starts a conversation just act like you're interested then halfway through just walk off without saying a word.
Mack05 Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 (edited) I would give him the assclown poem haha.. Joking apart. If I were you, I would wear my best dress. Have a great night. Don't act or over act. Just look calm, composed and relaxed on the outside. Inside you will be churning, that's ok. You are human. Avoid eye contact so much that you don't even see him there. If he approaches you, keep your cool. If makes conversation let him talk. Keep your responses short and sweet and then excuse yourself like smudge said above.. You are going to show him, that you are above him in every single way a person can be above someone. The worst thing you can do here is stoop to their level..I have little respect for people that dump people over the phone, I have even less respect for people that do it over text. You will go on to meet a great guy and live a great life. This fool will get what's coming to him, but that aint your problem. The best revenge you can get on your ex, is to live your life well. There is a chance he won't be there. Focus on a good night out. If he shows then go into Plan B above, but Plan A should be having fun with your friends. He isn't worth your concern...Forgive him Sugar, because he does not deserve this power he still holds over you..Once you genuinely forgive him, then you can fully move on. Not only that, there will come a day you won't even give a F%&k if he is even there or not. Edited August 1, 2011 by Mack05
Casablanca Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 I would go and have a lot of fun, dress in that great dress that shows off my curves correctly and say absolutely nothing to him. You know words would take away from that, so letting someone that at some point hurt you see that you are still standing, that you are still smiling and still looking great is def more powerful than words. So that's what I would do. Go, look great, and say nothing to him. I agree with all this...show him no attention and it will eat at him
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