sweet honey eyes Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 I've been dating this guy for 18 months. I was not ready to start a serious relationship as I was just divorced. He pushed into it and practically moved into my house (sleep here, eat here, showers here..., no contributing to nothing). During the weekends -all of them- he brings his son, with serious behavioral problems -pulling knives at him, his mother and grandparents, etc-. I was supposed to deal with it, because I was the "love of his life"... To make story short: he has facebook, over 250 ppl more than half women (he refuses to add me, no pics of me either, but lots of his son and himself). I have 50ppl on my fb and he questions every guy that I have (3 politicians and 2 male coworkers). After 18 months of this intense, unbalanced and suffocating relationship, he decided to go on vacations with his son to his country overseas for one month. He did not invite me. Didn't even consider it and last year was very tough for me as, among other things, I lost my father. Anyway, I felt hurt and angry at him at the same time. He told me to "stop bitching" and to stop repeating myself about how hurt I was with his vacations... I wonder why did I waste such a precious time of my life?? Why we don't see the difference between being loved and being used/abused??... Funny thing, he still thinks I am wrong and he is right...Really??? Thank you, all!
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 You can thank rose-tinted glasses for wasting your time with this scumbag. Sorry you went through this but you can consider this a learning experience.
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