dumpedandsore Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 last week i wrote about being dump adruptly via silent treatment then email by my heartless ex (who i felt by his actions, took me as a fling) i have been having problems at work..now i feel like giving it up..giving up everything in life.. i just "dumped" my best friend who is too concerned for me and has become a nosey parker. i dont even have a single friend and my family members knew what happened but dont even give a damn about me.. i feel i lost everything.. at times..i tell myself to keep moving, be strong..but i feel at loss..i lost everything.. no point fighting a lost battle.. feel like quiting and going for a long break alot.. my mind is in a mess..and soon my life..how..
morganx1321 Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 Please dont give up... I know its hard and hurts like hell, Honestly ive considered killing myself.. but what will that do? Im going through a horrible breakup.. everyday waking up is hard for me..but dont give up.. Instead DO better then before him or her, Its hard YES its hard, but it does get easier.. im still in pain, but not as much as before.. God loves you and I promise if you pray to him you will find comfort. Keep your head up even when you dont even want to open your eyes.
smudge21 Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 It's times like these that are sent to test us, to find out what type of person we are and also to make us into the person we should be. People don't become great through having an easy life. We need the struggle and challenge; we need the heartbreak and upset. It's what makes us strive to be the best we can. It's what makes us human. Don't give up on yourself ever. Just remember that in order to have the good you've got to have the bad. They go hand in hand and right now you're facing a rough time. It may take a while to get your mojo back but it will happen, I garauntee it. Once it does you'll look back at your post and hardly be able to remember the person who wrote it.
Geya Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 You are not wrong here. I think you’ve put a lot of effort into making this relationship work and it seems like your ex didn’t put any effort at all. But ask yourself this question, do you really see a future in the relationship. If he is so clear about never getting married, then maybe you are better moving on. I am not usually the one to say this, but in your case this might be the case. But if you do believe that he will try to make your relationship work and he is truly worth putting in the effort, then I would suggest you take small steps into getting back together. Don’t just ask him to get back together. Ask him out for a coffee or lunch and then slowly start dating again and reignite the spark that will get him back to you. I think that's the total opposite of what she should be doing! She dosn't seem in the right place to be in a healthy relationship to start with.. Dumped and sore I have been there, I know how it feels like to give up life wholly and I know how it feels like to be like a dead body walking, I've been through hell and out, it was awful, no words can describe it, it was the worst feeling ever, Id rather give natural birth a 100 times than go through that lol, but let me tell you it does get better, you need to cut people who caused this feeling to you (ur ex) and focus on feeling better and being happy by yourself, you CAN be happy by yourself, I never thought I'd say that or feel like that but I did! Don't ever give up, those bad horrible days were you just wana give up happens to everyone sometime in their lives, everyone goes through something like this wether it was a breakup, a divorce, death, poverty, betrayal.. But you have to hold on even when you feel you can't, you'll feel better sooner than you thought you would I promise you, it might feel it won't end but it WILL, hold on and be strong because it's worth it
Author dumpedandsore Posted August 1, 2011 Author Posted August 1, 2011 I think that's the total opposite of what she should be doing! She dosn't seem in the right place to be in a healthy relationship to start with.. Dumped and sore I have been there, I know how it feels like to give up life wholly and I know how it feels like to be like a dead body walking, I've been through hell and out, it was awful, no words can describe it, it was the worst feeling ever, Id rather give natural birth a 100 times than go through that lol, but let me tell you it does get better, you need to cut people who caused this feeling to you (ur ex) and focus on feeling better and being happy by yourself, you CAN be happy by yourself, I never thought I'd say that or feel like that but I did! Don't ever give up, those bad horrible days were you just wana give up happens to everyone sometime in their lives, everyone goes through something like this wether it was a breakup, a divorce, death, poverty, betrayal.. But you have to hold on even when you feel you can't, you'll feel better sooner than you thought you would I promise you, it might feel it won't end but it WILL, hold on and be strong because it's worth it Dumped and sore I have been there, I know how it feels like to give up life wholly and I know how it feels like to be like a dead body walking, I've been through hell and out, it was awful, no words can describe it, it was the worst feeling ever, Id rather give natural birth a 100 times than go through that lol, but let me tell you it does get better, you need to cut people who caused this feeling to you (ur ex) and focus on feeling better and being happy by yourself, you CAN be happy by yourself, I never thought I'd say that or feel like that but I did! Don't ever give up, those bad horrible days were you just wana give up happens to everyone sometime in their lives, everyone goes through something like this wether it was a breakup, a divorce, death, poverty, betrayal.. But you have to hold on even when you feel you can't, you'll feel better sooner than you thought you would I promise you, it might feel it won't end but it WILL, hold on and be strong because it's worth it
Chi townD Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 If you are having thoughts about ending your life. I'm begging you to please, PLEASE! seek out professional help. I will tell you that no guy is worth ending your life over. You have to find that strong independant woman, strong enough to know when you need help. Believe me, the right guy is going to find you. Sometimes, when you least expect it. Hang in there, please get some help. And you know that we are all here for you, we have touched these low places that you're at now. And you do have friends here that will listen and support you in anyway possible.
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