YoungT Posted July 31, 2011 Posted July 31, 2011 (edited) So this girl and I have been dating for just under 2 months we hang out 1x or 2x a week and and been hooking up but so sex. We both seem to enjoy each others company alot and last i saw her she snuck up on me and gave me a hug squeezed my but and asked to hang out soon, that was last Wednesday, she said she couldn't hang out Thursday kus she was going out with her friends to a bar. but we would spend Friday night together. i didn't like that but we aren't officially dating so i said have fun. Friday rolls around i gave her a text at 6 and call at 9 and she never responded, so i got stood up. Mid saterday i texted her " im stopping by" and she finally responds "No dont im not home, I'll call you tonight. dont worry im okay" She never called and now its sunday Any1 have any thoughts, I still havent heard from her and she normally texts me have good day at work everyday and says hun or babe or love and xoxo's and now she is so distant we had plans this coming weekend which i already spent money on and i need know whats going on, i was thinking i should just not contact her until tuesday "we leave thursday" and talk to her. What do you all think is going on? did she hook up with aguy at the bar and feel guilty or what? Edited July 31, 2011 by YoungT more info
Imajerk17 Posted July 31, 2011 Posted July 31, 2011 I wonder if she met someone else (or in general, if someone else is in the picture).
TuffCookieX Posted July 31, 2011 Posted July 31, 2011 She's being a b*tch, go find another date for those plans you spent money on.
Professor X Posted July 31, 2011 Posted July 31, 2011 What do you all think is going on? did she hook up with aguy at the bar and feel guilty or what? That's the first thing that came to my mind as well. Well, you can never be sure, but I promise you will get an answer sooner than you think; She can't dodge you forever.
Hazel_eyes Posted July 31, 2011 Posted July 31, 2011 You need to get in touch with her and straight up ask her what is going on. My husband dated a girl and had a situation kinda like this. They were seeing each other about twice a week, talking on the phone regularly, for 2 months. Then all of a sudden she dropped off the planet for 2 weeks. Wouldn't answer any of his phone calls, had missed the date they had planned, stopped going to his baseball games, etc. Then she showed back up and acted as if nothing had happened. My husband was mad, and she thought he was ridiculous for being upset, that that was just the way she was and he had to get used to it. He broke up with her. This could be serious, like she met someone else, or could be as simple as she is incredibly independent and it isn't a huge priority for her to keep in contact with boyfriends or meet up with boyfriends if something else comes along. If this is simply her personality then you need to decide whether or not this is something you are willing to deal with in a relationship. Best of luck!
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