Mimsicles Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Ok here goes, I recently went on a girls holiday to Ibiza, and had the time of my life. I met a guy out there on the 1st night and we spent the night together just kissing and cudling no more. 2nd night he stayed over and we just kissed and chatted and realised we had loads to common. Another couple of days passed and we slept together, I made it perfectly clear it was all that I wanted and he said he only wanted a bit of fun. Now this is what I dont understand, we agree to meet up on my last night for sex, so I tried to contact him but nothing...we later bumped into each other and he refused to come back to mine claiming he wanted to sleep. I didn't contact him for the rest of the holiday. When I arrived home he had text saying it was great to meet me. I have recently added him on facebook in which he has ignored and hasn't replied to my texts. All i want to know is why he when so odd on the last night, its not like I wanted a relationship with him just a bit of fun. I'm normally good at reading people but in this case i'd appreciate someone else's opinion as to whats going on in his head! thanks guys in advance Link to post Share on other sites
Casablanca Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Sounds like he may have wanted more with you and only agreed with only wanting a bit of fun to not make it awkward. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 It's simple....he wasnt available and has a girl at home Link to post Share on other sites
Joe Normal Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 He bedded you and isn't interested in anything more. Why would he want to be 'friends' when sex was all he wanted? Link to post Share on other sites
creighton0123 Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 Either he wanted more than just sex or he agreed with you and only wanted just sex, seeing no need to meet up with you or continue that much conversation with you outside of a courteous "good to meet you" message. You had fun. Why so much after thought? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mimsicles Posted August 9, 2011 Author Share Posted August 9, 2011 Maybe deep down I wanted more than just sex, can't think of anything else but him since i've come home, and that is not like me:( Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted August 9, 2011 Share Posted August 9, 2011 Ug. I thought this was about getting laid on Christmas. We call it "vacation". Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted August 9, 2011 Share Posted August 9, 2011 He probably either moved onto somebody else, or he has a gf at home. Ok here goes, I recently went on a girls holiday to Ibiza, and had the time of my life. I met a guy out there on the 1st night and we spent the night together just kissing and cudling no more. 2nd night he stayed over and we just kissed and chatted and realised we had loads to common. Another couple of days passed and we slept together, I made it perfectly clear it was all that I wanted and he said he only wanted a bit of fun. Now this is what I dont understand, we agree to meet up on my last night for sex, so I tried to contact him but nothing...we later bumped into each other and he refused to come back to mine claiming he wanted to sleep. I didn't contact him for the rest of the holiday. When I arrived home he had text saying it was great to meet me. I have recently added him on facebook in which he has ignored and hasn't replied to my texts. All i want to know is why he when so odd on the last night, its not like I wanted a relationship with him just a bit of fun. I'm normally good at reading people but in this case i'd appreciate someone else's opinion as to whats going on in his head! thanks guys in advance Link to post Share on other sites
Leumas Posted August 10, 2011 Share Posted August 10, 2011 In my opinion he wasn't interested in getting together for some potentially awkward "goodbye sex" with a girl he just wanted to have "fun" with. If you didn't tell him it was your last night he probably would've been there. Link to post Share on other sites
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