Broke NfreakingC multiple times ... back to square one!

[SinglePeaInThePoD]

My ex bf broke up with me a few weeks ago (said was bored/wanted to cheat/ I was too good for him) and I was doing well going NC until I bumped into him where I work.

 

Since then, it has been calling everyday & acting like nothing has happened! I brought it up and he wants to remain friends for peace of mind bc he feels like he abandoned me...that he would like to continue seeing me and that all the things he said were out of anger and that he meant none of it...that he was never bored or wanted to cheat, just wanted me to go away and now he has to swallow what he said.

 

 

 

He took me out to the same place we had our first date a few yrs ago...then afterward said he doesn't want to kiss me for a year and doesn't expect me to run into his arms.

 

 

 

Yesterday he called and talks about dating and he mentioned how he went on one recently and that I should do the same bc it will be good for me. I just feel so worthless now, because this only happened a few weeks ago and he is already going on dates!!!!

 

 

Oh, but he did mention how the date was a disaster because she wasn’t as great as he thought. WHATEVER.

 

 

I am so mad at myself for breaking NC! SO STUPID!

 

 

He still calls me by the ‘pet’ names he made up and asks my opinion on physical changes he wants to do....WHYYY does my opinion even matter if I am not going to be around to freaking see it.

 

It’s my fault too, bc I kept answering! And entertaining whatever plan it is that he has in his mind.

 

 

He is painting a picture that we will get together again…saying that in the end people always find their way back.

 

 

So annoyed. HE left me, so why is he doing this? I am not answering anymore. eff that.

[lost.lamb]

I agree with you. My ex has broken up with me, dumped me and did the exact thing again. It was always about him.

 

Stop being his friend until he learns to be more mature. ^_^