youngskywalker Posted July 30, 2011 Posted July 30, 2011 IME I've found that it's the mans job to keep a woman interested by pushing the envelope sexually. Women are strange creatures that simply love new adventure in almost everything... including sex. Whatever the act is, every woman WANTS to walk the fine line of her personal standards. Be it oral, seduction, bondage, public, anal, role play or whatever kink you can think of; a good man will always have the unexpected ready when it's needed. If you're just a lazy man looking to get your needs met without challenging and keeping your woman curious you're setting yourself up for failure. Any thoughts on this?
Eddie Edirol Posted July 31, 2011 Posted July 31, 2011 I dont think women are strange creatures. As humans our brains are designed to adapt and re-adapt. That includes sex. Same thing with work, food, and play. We get bored with routine and want to be challenged with everything. So this applies to women and men, when we are applying ourselves to something, we want to naturally take it to the next level. The real deal is - if you are interested and really sexually passionate about your SO, you naturally want to try new things. When you are bored with them, you dont think about it, you just want to get the poison out and over with.
Author youngskywalker Posted July 31, 2011 Author Posted July 31, 2011 Good Sex with a new body is rather easy. Good sex in a long term relationship requires fantasy and imagination. Those that have no imagination usually go sexless after 2-3 years. I know of many married couples that are basically in sexless relationships. As a man, I've always viewed it as being the woman's fault. After probing into the situation a little and talking to friends of friends who are in the sexless predicament, I've come to the conclusion that it's the mans fault. At least in the couples that I know. I can't really comment on to why this is the case. Just that I know of women who are starving of sex from their man. They try to get them interested but they can't or won't. I don't ever want to find myself in that situation.
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