WiselyNaive Posted July 30, 2011 Posted July 30, 2011 after my ex cries n begs and tells me hes inlove with me and wants me back i took some time to myself because he really hurt me..i tried to move on by casually dating some1 else and after a while my ex became aware....eventually it was just so hard because i still loved my ex...one day i dropped my gaurd and decided to tell my ex i was still inlove with him too and wanted to fix it...simply because he had told me that a few weeks before and as far as i know love doesnt change like that..but when i told my ex he changed everything ..said he didnt want to fix it he wants to be single and he likes someone else & all this stuff...after that my ex began ignoring me...after i while i just gave up..because i still have no idea what i did and why hes ignoring me...the 2 ideas i came up with was 1 hes mad over the guy i was seeing or 2 he never really wanted to fix it and is pretending to be mad to get out of it....anyway i guess he finally realized i gave up...so all of a sudden i was told about some suspect "tweets" of his..when i went to look he was making comments that were clearly aimed at me..about how hes happy ignoring me annoys me and basically secretly bragging about how i care and he doesnt and saying i make myself look stupid and just childish stuff..almost like a kid who makes a gigantic mess and then stands proud and smiles and brags about it..which was odd because he hasnt made any remarks about me since last we spoke...the comments were just so spiteful and basically was him expressing his happiness that i was sad...or my assumed sadness...which to me still shocking cause idk why hes mad..and now its clear he is TRYING to upset me and how i see it is if he didnt care why was he going through my tweets and why is he tweeting about me.it was if as thought he read through all my tweets and was trying to make a conversation with me...i feel like he may have realized i stop trying and is testing the water by being a jerk....but i just dont get why hes acting like that...acting like he hates me...and now making mean comments towards me if he wont tell me what i did...why would a guy act like this?
sd89 Posted July 30, 2011 Posted July 30, 2011 You are hardcore over analyzing a twitter page.... just let that sink in. Let the guy blow off some steam if he needs to. You write about the situation here, he happens to find his outlet on twitter. Like anyone who is angry, they normally don't mean what they say. Give him space and don't check his twitter whatever you do.
Kilty Posted July 30, 2011 Posted July 30, 2011 I am afraid for many people, once their ex goes with someone else there is no way back. Of course some people can get over/overlook/forget about a situation like that & reconcile but id guesstimate for every one that can there are 100 that cant/wont. Personally speaking i could never go back with my ex now she has been with someone else and i dare say your ex is the same. You have nothing to feel guilty about however he " cried & begged, told you he was in love with you & wanted you back " and you went with someone else. Afraid thats a deal breaker in most peoples eyes. I guess if you had really wanted him back you wouldnt have went with someone else. His actions now are just anger although a bit immature Youll just have to move on & try & block/ignore him or whatever
listen_to_me_please Posted July 30, 2011 Posted July 30, 2011 (edited) i concur, by you going with someone else then its over why don't women realize banging another guy while someone else loves and wants to be with them, is a death kill. now you've learned a lesson, in the future when you decide to "take time to yourself" aka bang another dude, never tell the first guy and pray he doesn't find out Edited July 30, 2011 by listen_to_me_please
Author WiselyNaive Posted July 30, 2011 Author Posted July 30, 2011 i concur, by you going with someone else then its over why don't women realize banging another guy while someone else loves and wants to be with them, is a death kill. now you've learned a lesson, in the future when you decide to "take time to yourself" aka bang another dude, never tell the first guy and pray he doesn't find out lol ...who said anything about banging?..all ive done is kiss this guy..lol..and my ex had confessed about 2 girls he slept with..ive slepth with nobody O_O...the most ive done is been seen out with this guy a few times..lol
listen_to_me_please Posted July 31, 2011 Posted July 31, 2011 kiss or bang, same difference, that guy's head is messed up. he could of slept with 90 girls doesn't matter, he's not the one posting on this site.
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