Booyah171 Posted July 30, 2011 Posted July 30, 2011 I posted a few months back how we agreed not to see each other. That lasted all of about 2 weeks and then I texted her. We have been seeing each other off and on since then until last week when she finally stopped texting or calling. This also happened right after her birthday. She sent me a long drawn out text saying how she hates how I make her feel and we are done for good this time. This relationship has had its ups and downs and ons and offs over the last couple years but it was mostly good. Recently I found myself miserable just being around her and yet when she isn't I'm even more miserable. I don't understand it. I wrote a list of all the good/bad reasons we should be together. The bad reasons were over 10, the good reasons about 3. I think she is now seeing someone because when I asked her about it she basically said she didn't have to tell me anything. This sucks and it hurts but there is nothing else to do but wait it out. I'm not texting her anymore and I'm starting a new NC rule. We went a full 7 days without contact and finally she sends me the "i dont want you" text. Wish me luck. Thanks for reading.
Movingthrough Posted July 30, 2011 Posted July 30, 2011 She sent me a long drawn out text saying how she hates how I make her feel and we are done for good this time How did it all start over again if you make her feel so "bad"? And what do you do that makes her feel that way?
Author Booyah171 Posted July 30, 2011 Author Posted July 30, 2011 (edited) I usually have my kids on Sunday nights. Last Sunday was her birthday so she went ahead and made plans with her family and her friends because I wasn't available. I told her a couple days before I would like to take her out to dinner on Sunday and have my father watch the kids. She said "no" she already had plans. It irritated me a bit but I never let on. The day of her birthday I sent her a text saying "Happy birthday, I hope you have a wonderful day!". She said "Thanks" and that was it. No contact for the following week. The first thing in her text was "I don't know if you are pissed off because I didn't go out with you on my birthday or what but I'm done with how you make me feel" Her comments must be in regards to our ups and downs over the years because I haven't had any contact with her. It started again because I texted her. Maybe she was horny? I don't know. I'm friggin' miserable when I'm with her and I'm friggin' miserable without her. I try to think of all the bad things and how could I live the rest of my life like this but so far it's not working. Edited July 30, 2011 by Booyah171
SelfControl Posted July 30, 2011 Posted July 30, 2011 You know what you have to do. Be strong and do the right thing. You can do it.
Pelican Paw Posted July 30, 2011 Posted July 30, 2011 Sorry for what you are going through ! Just know that you are not alone at all.
Movingthrough Posted July 30, 2011 Posted July 30, 2011 It sounds like she wants you to make "more" of an effort, not saying that is right but its like nothing you do is good enough. A lot of times girls have expectations and they think we should just know what they are. I would say be lucky you have had some sort of chance again and dont seem to be pinning over it like most of us on here have.
Dasaso Posted July 30, 2011 Posted July 30, 2011 its better to move one, you said there were only 3 good things about been with her. Shes playing hard to get making you feel like you are making her feel bad. That's just not right.
Author Booyah171 Posted July 31, 2011 Author Posted July 31, 2011 Thanks for the kind words. I know it's for the best as I've gone through this a few times in the past with her. I would be unhappy without her, we would get back together and then I would be unhappy again. It was a vicious circle and I knew we weren't right together but something *felt* right. We had that "it" factor. I honestly can only think of a few positive things about her, the negatives are in the teens (if not twenties). It just hurts, but then again, what breakup doesn't? Thanks.
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