TurboGirl Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 SO, I've been keeping up with your story here on LS, and I'm sorry that you are going ahead with the divorce lawyers. Glad that you were, in fact, able to protect yourself and your finances. Very important! Things have a way of working out for the best in the long term, and that is what I wish for you. Hope that your health is improving, and that having everything out in the open will relieve some of the stress. Best wishes!
Author Severely Unamused Posted August 30, 2011 Author Posted August 30, 2011 (edited) Thanks you three. Daawww, there's something in my eye. You know you can keep dropping in on LS, if you feel like it, even if you don't need advice - you can still dish it. Weird thing wo. One of the reasons that I go to the OW/OM and infidelity boards is because OWs (some past, some present) seem to be drawn to me in my own life. I think that it's because of my big sister instinct. Would you be surprised to know that I have a woinlove and Turbogirl in my own life? Or pretty much every other poster on the OW board in my own life? I think that visiting LS is holding me back, as odd as that may sound. Ironically, visiting LS in the first place has helped me realise this, and where I want to go next. I've been keeping up with your story here on LS, and I'm sorry that you are going ahead with the divorce lawyers. Glad that you were, in fact, able to protect yourself and your finances. Very important! Things have a way of working out for the best in the long term, and that is what I wish for you. Hope that your health is improving, and that having everything out in the open will relieve some of the stress. Best wishes! I don't necessarily want to get a divorce but (as hard as this is to explain as I can't really put it into words) it's for the best. I've saved up enough to cover for any medical expenses for the next decade. My husband gets the house and car, 50% from our joint accounts, alimony and child support every week, and I'm even paying for therapy and MC. As sweet as it is that he says that he would give it all away if I would only stay with him, I think that he will be okay. He's a good guy. Our son is a tough kid. I know he will be okay too. I'll be there for him. Anyways, off to see the lawyers. Bye bye. Edited August 30, 2011 by Severely Unamused Not so tired. Just stupid.
woinlove Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 Thanks you three. Daawww, there's something in my eye. Weird thing wo. One of the reasons that I go to the OW/OM and infidelity boards is because OWs (some past, some present) seem to be drawn to me in my own life. I think that it's because of my big sister instinct. Would you be surprised to know that I have a woinlove and Turbogirl in my own life? Or pretty much every other poster on the OW board in my own life? I think that visiting LS is holding me back, as odd as that may sound. Ironically, visiting LS in the first place has helped me realise this, and where I want to go next. I don't necessarily want to get a divorce but (as hard as this is to explain as I can't really put it into words) it's for the best. I've saved up enough to cover for any medical expenses for the next decade. My husband gets the house and car, 50% from our joint accounts, alimony and child support every week, and I'm even paying for therapy and MC. As sweet as it is that he says that he would give it all away if I would only stay with him, I think that he will be okay. He's a good guy. Our son is a tough kid. I know he will be okay too. I'll be there for him. Anyways, off to see the lawyers. Bye bye. ...in case you are still reading Doesn't surprise me that you've been a woinlove or any of the others. And it's great that you know where you want to go. That makes all the difference. Wow, that's a generous settlement for a H you just caught cheating. But I think it is great. First, if you have what you need, money just isn't that important. And second, since you mentioned your H was a SAHD, your generosity will help you son and that is really important. Divorce with children (or a child) is always sad, but, yes, it can definitely be for the best. Again, wishing you, and your family, all the best.
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