sd89 Posted July 29, 2011 Posted July 29, 2011 (edited) I posted this in the dating section but no one answered, so I think this might be the right place. Me ex broke up with me 2 months ago and I had a pretty hard time dealing with it, but I managed to focus on myself and make changes for me and for the better. The other night I was out with a friend at a club. We just went to listen to the music, not so much party. But I was waiting by the bathroom for my buddy (the place was packed) and this girl walks by, looks, smiles at me and then stopped and turned around and simply said, "hi!" with a then even bigger smile! Damn it felt pretty good to get that kind of attention and I played off that feeling. I talked to the girl for a bit not really thinking of going anywhere with it. She was interested in everything I had to say and was very flirtatious and laughed a lot. This made me feel really confident and good about myself. My friend came out and I went my own way back to dance. I didnt see her again the whole night until the end. But whatever she did to me, it turned me into a chick magnet. I think a lot of girls could sense my confidence or something, cause i was getting chatted up all night. It felt really good and I wasnt really ready for a rebound yet so I just kept it all small talk with everyone. When the place was closing, the girl that I met by the bathroom came to find me. It was something about the intention she gave me and me feeling wanted made me invite her to my place. During the taxi ride home with my buddy (he lives with me), she kept saying how I was a bad boy and that it turned her on. I just laughed and we all had a great time, and I found out we have similar interests. I ended up hooking up with her. It was alright. I felt no real connection during the sex, like the kissing wasnt even good. It could be that we were both completely trashed. But for me a strong sexual connection is the base of my relationships, in a healthy way. The next day we hung out a bit, made lunch together and she split. She left me a note saying "If you wanna see me again, (I hope so ) you can call me or write me an sms. her number, her name." I feel like this could be something with her, main reason being we share a lot of interests. But there are a few things keeping me from contacting her again. I dont think I am ready to be with someone nowI didnt find her hot in bed (maybe be that we were both trashed)We have a language barrier, shes an austrian not speaking so well english, im spanish/american not speaking so good germanShe has a daughter. Im not sure how old she is actually. Im 22. I know for sure she isnt older than me. But I also dont want to be involved with a child right now. What should I do about the situation. I still would like to be polite with the girl and call her up in a few days, maybe grab coffee. Dont really know what to do after. Or should I not call her at all. Edited July 29, 2011 by sd89
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