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Follow up from my last update... So he called me on June 27 (our 3rd year anniversary) and wanted to continue our relationship as he still has feelings for me. He told me that he was silent for almost 4 months because he thought that I needed more space when I asked him for a 2-3-week pause. We updated each other and he told me that he converted his phone subscription from postpaid into prepaid to cut cost as he still struggles with his business. He also told me that he can’t visit me in my country soon. He always asks why I don’t use the money that he put in my bank account and he said in the form of a joke that perhaps I already have a better boyfriend. I thought that’s the time for us to really start everything, becoming closer and even sweeter than before but I was wrong. In the next day, he told me that he changed his internet subscription in which the speed is slower at night, so he can’t use Skype. He knows that I’m not available during day time so I started to feel that he’s avoiding talking to me for a long time like before. We didn’t even have enough chance to talk about the problems that lead us into a long pause. We only talked 4 times exchanged a few text messages, emails and comments in FB. I know that his phone subscription is still postpaid because whenever I check one of his email accounts, his phone is still connected into it. He has time to send emails to the mailing list but didn’t even reply my text messages via SMS or email. He changed a lot—our meal and sleep signs are no more, and the way he talks via phone or email is so cold (except for last time on our 3 years and 1 month).

 

I’m just thinking the reason why he still wants to continue our relationship and he still tells me that I’m needed into his life. Since we live into different countries, it’s just easy for him to leave me like that if he wants… but he’s being unfair the way he treats me. I feel like we are strangers with each other nowadays. I don’t know how to go about it. If I’ll confront him, he’ll know that I’m gathering more evidences. At the same time, I want him to feel that unlike before, I’m not focusing into him but into my life instead… but I’m hurt—really hurt. I don’t want to do any action that will make me regret again, but I can’t take this for so long…

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This only works if someone wants to be with you, game playing doesn't work long term.

 

 

 

You have to stop to contact you directly. This will be very difficult, but if you want back n is the only way. Discontinue a call, SMS, quote, begging for all. Trust me it works. Get the book Jemima Fox, Win back and follow the instructions.
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[FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]I don’t beg or confront him when he called on our 3 years and 1 month last Wednesday, I was able to talk to him in a positive tone and the convo was good, though I feel that re’s a his statement. He told me that he converted his postpaid phone line into prepaid and just reloaded a certain amount just to call me. but the duration of the call was longer than the expected period based on the amount that he said. Since the convo was good, I emailed him about my computer and he told me that he’s going to help me to fix the problem, or he’ll buy another one before the end of this year (my PC is his gift) and no reply again. But I’ve learned not to expect too much nowadays. I sent him a text reminding that my phone (his gift) celebrated its 1 year anniversary yesterday but still no reply. I did that to test if he still continues to be distant… am I in the right direction? I don’t want to play mind game…[/sIZE][/FONT]

Follow up from my last update... So he called me on June 27 (our 3rd year anniversary) and wanted to continue our relationship as he still has feelings for me. He told me that he was silent for almost 4 months because he thought that I needed more space when I asked him for a 2-3-week pause. We updated each other and he told me that he converted his phone subscription from postpaid into prepaid to cut cost as he still struggles with his business. He also told me that he can’t visit me in my country soon. He always asks why I don’t use the money that he put in my bank account and he said in the form of a joke that perhaps I already have a better boyfriend. I thought that’s the time for us to really start everything, becoming closer and even sweeter than before but I was wrong. In the next day, he told me that he changed his internet subscription in which the speed is slower at night, so he can’t use Skype. He knows that I’m not available during day time so I started to feel that he’s avoiding talking to me for a long time like before. We didn’t even have enough chance to talk about the problems that lead us into a long pause. We only talked 4 times exchanged a few text messages, emails and comments in FB. I know that his phone subscription is still postpaid because whenever I check one of his email accounts, his phone is still connected into it. He has time to send emails to the mailing list but didn’t even reply my text messages via SMS or email. He changed a lot—our meal and sleep signs are no more, and the way he talks via phone or email is so cold (except for last time on our 3 years and 1 month).

 

I’m just thinking the reason why he still wants to continue our relationship and he still tells me that I’m needed into his life. Since we live into different countries, it’s just easy for him to leave me like that if he wants… but he’s being unfair the way he treats me. I feel like we are strangers with each other nowadays. I don’t know how to go about it. If I’ll confront him, he’ll know that I’m gathering more evidences. At the same time, I want him to feel that unlike before, I’m not focusing into him but into my life instead… but I’m hurt—really hurt. I don’t want to do any action that will make me regret again, but I can’t take this for so long…

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Three years is too long to waste. With LDR's everything is usually speeded up, in my experience. Find someone else. He probably has.

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actually, we were okay for more than 2 years... and i sent a letter last sunday asking him to let me go if he's not happy with me anymore. and that i'm open for a talk but if he'll not respond within these next few days, i already know that he's letting me go for good. he called on monday (yesterday) but when i noticed the phone's ring and i picked it up, the call already stopped. he did not call again. i think i've done the right thing by not putting my life on hold just for uncertain thing, but i'm hurting... i miss him and i still love him so much but i don't think he loves me the way i do. i'm so emotional right now. i want ot get over him soon...

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i still want him back but if he's just going to continue his behavior, i would rather not to go with him... i wish he'll contact me and will save the relationship but i don't want to expect because it is just giving me more disappointments... i already have jemima's book and other guide books but i think they don't work... i appreciate if someone can give more advice...

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