I want to print and hang up my ex's wedding picture of him and the other woman

[shayla]

I think it would help me to heal, and to get over my dread of seeing them together, whenever that will be. I think that if I look at their wedding pictures without being upset at seeing them, I will know that I am completely over all of this....all of the lying and cheating he did, and the fact that he put a ring on this woman's finger while we were together.

 

I am almost over it, but that one thought nags at me.

Do you think that doing this is a good idea, or not? Any suggestions would be appreciated.

[shayla]

I don't want them to have the satisfaction of them seeing any reaction from me when I do see them together. This is why I want to do this. But I don't want to end up back at square one either. I'm just not totally sure if this is a good idea.

[Philosoraptor]

Just look at the winner she got. She got engaged to someone in a committed relationship. All she inherited was a cheater and this relationship is going to blow up sooner than later.

[KoolKat]

I think possibly this might do more harm than good. It will only serve to hurt you and bring back that betrayal over and over.

 

The best thing would be to get on with your life, try to find happiness and by doing that, you will soon find that they mean nothing to you anymore.

 

If you see them before then, pull a poker face and don't make eye-contact. Keep telling yourself inside that they are nothing and carry on walking.

[sassybetch]

Just look at the winner she got. She got engaged to someone in a committed relationship. All she inherited was a cheater and this relationship is going to blow up sooner than later.

 

completely agreed!

[shayla]

Just look at the winner she got. She got engaged to someone in a committed relationship. All she inherited was a cheater and this relationship is going to blow up sooner than later.

 

Neither one of them are prizes: This is his 4th marriage, he has cheated on every single woman he has ever been with, and he is a compulsive liar, lying on me still although he broke with me by email 8 months ago! And she jumped in bed with a man that was commited to someone else less than 2 months after her husband died. Unreal. My father died 3 months ago and I got an email from the ex, Im thinking it's condolences, he knew my father after all....instead it was a virus. UGH.

 

The two of them deserve each other and I am still pissed that I was in the middle of this fuc*ery.

 

I am going to put them both back into the grave I dug for them, dead to me. May she sit up nights wondering where he is like I used to, and may he choke on the cake he ate while having it too.

 

Thank you all for your good advice.