Kelebek Posted April 26, 2004 Posted April 26, 2004 This isn't really a big deal, I guess to anyone but me!! But this guy is all I can think about, and last week we kissed for the first time - woohoo! We work together, so I saw him the next day, and that night he asked me out - obviously I said yes!! However, we left it on a "Well, I'll see you soon then," kind of note, and didn't actually sort out a date. But I'm not too worried about that, as I'll see him on Thursday at work (we work part-time, we're both at university) and hopefully we will sort something out. Anyway, I haven't spoken to him since that night he asked me out which was the night before last night. Do you reckon I should text him, just to say hi? Keep the contact going before I see him? I usually text him every so often anyway (we were friends for a while before all of this) so it wouldn't look odd...but I'm just so scared of scaring him off - I know that's stupid as the guy just asked me out, but I really, really like him and just want everything to go well!! Do you think I should maybe wait til tomorrow? Hmmm. While we're on the topic...do guys play these sort of games?? They're exhausting! I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago and to start all of this "Should I call him now or wait a few days...." thing again is crazy! Hehe Or should I just wait until I see him on Thursday, and take it from there? I just don't want him to think I'm not interested, cos by that time, it's 4/5 days since he asked me out. But I don't want to pester him and look TOO interested...argh!!! Lol, cheers for listening, needed to get that out there!!
CurlyIam Posted April 26, 2004 Posted April 26, 2004 Don't call, don't send any SMS. I know you used to that then, but you weren't into kissin' at the time. If he's playing games, you won't fall it, if he isn't you'll just keep the suspense alive. Keeps the interest alive too, haha. I can't tell how important the first kiss is to guys, I believe that simply doing it is much more important to them than... it. It's like a confirmation for getting onto the next stage. You need a guy's opinion here My opinion is not to rush it, chances are he already knows you really like him. So don't stress about it, be cool, you'll see how it goes when you meet.
Author Kelebek Posted April 26, 2004 Author Posted April 26, 2004 Hehe, you're right - chances are he does know how much I like him! In fact, he must know, so if I don't text it'll just keep him on his toes, lol. I just don't want it to be weird the next time I see him....but you're right, I'll hold off. It's only three days away anyway! Ohhh this is tough....lol....but I won't stress and I will be cool (I'll TRY anyway!) Thanks CurlyIam!!!!
CurlyIam Posted April 26, 2004 Posted April 26, 2004 No problem. Hope it helps and it's the good advice. And if I was right about him, prepare for some more "war of nerves". Take it like a tease. It can be fun, relax and enjoy this , begginings are my favourites!
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