alexa137 Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 what does it really mean when they guy you are dating tells you its ok to date other people? i mean when im with one person im not really wanting to date anyone else, especially if we are sexual. I just feel like after so many months i start to have feelings and i dont want to give another person im just dating to think that it could be something else when i want to be with someone else. does it make sense? i just cant do the two timing thing. I would be so confused as to what i said to which one?! is it dumb to feel like you only want to share your time and everything and save it for the one you really like?
Audrina Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 It means he's probably dating other people too, or not ready to be exclusive with you. You should tell him that if you're having sex, you expect to be exclusive, and if this is something he can't do, and is important to you, move on to someone who will be exclusive.
Author alexa137 Posted July 27, 2011 Author Posted July 27, 2011 I have a feeling hes "dating" other people too, but i asked if he was having sex with other girls ,and to please be completely honest and he said, nope. hard to trust people because of my bad past with men. he says he doesnt want to move on and rush into the next level with me, i think hes testing me,but i really messed up last few days, because of my trust issues. but after this one, I'm done~!
zengirl Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 It means he's not serious about you or expecting to be serious about you. It means that if you're looking for something serious (now or ever with this guy), you should give up and move on. In a way, he's warning you. Guys who dig you, or think you might potentially be GF material, do not want to think of you dating anyone else.
azsinglegal Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 Guess you have your answer to this thread then: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t289533/ My original advice still stands. Get a life of your own so you have something to give to him in return. It seems like your actions towards him are pushing him away. How about you show him you don't NEED him but WANT him instead?
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