threebyfate Posted July 28, 2011 Posted July 28, 2011 Well . . . Except both parts are actually kinda good. We need some discomfort for growth, after all. The discomfort is what makes you reach out and make things happen!I don't understand the discomfort and don't get it with chemistry. The only time I get discomfort is when the guy I have chemistry with, is being dishonest.
zengirl Posted July 28, 2011 Posted July 28, 2011 I don't understand the discomfort and don't get it with chemistry. The only time I get discomfort is when the guy I have chemistry with, is being dishonest. You never get nervous around someone you really like but in a way where you still know it's totally okay? It's butterflies in your stomach. I get it every time I find something really good, and it doesn't mean the guy is being dishonest or I'm not digging him. It's like the excitement before going onstage almost.
threebyfate Posted July 28, 2011 Posted July 28, 2011 You never get nervous around someone you really like but in a way where you still know it's totally okay? It's butterflies in your stomach. I get it every time I find something really good, and it doesn't mean the guy is being dishonest or I'm not digging him. It's like the excitement before going onstage almost.Oh sure I get excited to be with him but it's not an uncomfortable feeling. It's exhilarating!
zengirl Posted July 28, 2011 Posted July 28, 2011 Oh sure I get excited to be with him but it's not an uncomfortable feeling. It's exhilarating! Well, I'm not a daredevil type. Anything exhilarating for me also makes me uncomfortable, especially in the beginning. Perhaps different temperaments feel it differently.
Andy_K Posted July 28, 2011 Posted July 28, 2011 Chemistry is what women feel when they're attracted to someone but not really sure why...
grkBoy Posted July 28, 2011 Posted July 28, 2011 I answered this in the other topic. I still think it's a farce and too many mistake lust for chemistry.
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