Complicatedheart Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 I'm in a relationship with this amazing guy, who's disabled. We met about eight months ago on the internet. Been in love for about six of those. I know he's the one! We're very madly in love. But things are not very easy. First, we're in different continents. I plan to visit him for christmas, if all goes well. It will be the first time i see him. We talk daily. We want to marry some years down the line. But i don't know what to think of it, considering we'll not be able to meet very regularly. Either one moving to the other's country is not an option right now. It's getting tough. :-( please help.
Citizen Erased Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 I think you should wait until you actually meet him before you start worrying about marriage and who will be moving.
Author Complicatedheart Posted July 28, 2011 Author Posted July 28, 2011 He gets too preoccupied in his distractions and completely forgets when we schedule calls. Sometimes when I really need to talk to him. Stuff like that sometimes makes me doubt my decision.
TMichaels Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 He gets too preoccupied in his distractions and completely forgets when we schedule calls. Sometimes when I really need to talk to him. Stuff like that sometimes makes me doubt my decision. Um, ask yourself this... IF this guy lived around the corner from you and was so preoccupied that he forgot to show up for a date, would you put up with that? Doubt it. I don't care how far away he is or what his excuses are. If he cared about you as much as you do about him, he wouldn't be standing you up. Best, TMichaels
HeavenOrHell Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 Sorry to sound harsh, but you need to get your head out of the clouds and actually MEET this person before you even think about moving or marriage! Until you meet you don't know anything for sure, and then you need to spend lots of time together to know if you are compatible in real life. Phone calls/contact of any kind is crucial in an LDR, if he forgets to call then there is a problem, unless he has serious problems with his memory. He gets too preoccupied in his distractions and completely forgets when we schedule calls. Sometimes when I really need to talk to him. Stuff like that sometimes makes me doubt my decision.
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