UT_longhorn Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 knew a girl for a couple months. dated only a week. mutually attracted and crazy chemistry. but problem is i dated her older sister a while back. but very brief (only 4 dinners...no kiss) i think the older sister sabotaged the relationship..not sure if she spoke negatively about me or what but after a lunch with her older sister one day, younger sister texted we could no longer continue...with no explanation. our fling was very brief...but i'd say passionate. is it too much if i send this note to her? xoxo, I know this letter is un requested and may be unwelcome, but I just wanted to let you know, that your spirit is beautiful. I couldn't help notice a fraction of vulnerability that made you so much more human. This isn't a request for a response, but really a way for me to tell you that my intentions were honest, and my feelings were true. I hope this road called life takes you on a fantastic journey as I know you live life to experience. Both the good and the bad. Sam
Teknoe Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 I've sent that type of message out before. If it gives you closure or peace, sure. You have the right attitude, don't expect a response. I find it's healthy to forgive someone of any wrong they've done, or allow yourself to forgive yourself, wish them well in the game that is life, and part ways for good.
Author UT_longhorn Posted July 27, 2011 Author Posted July 27, 2011 Is it too cheesey or will it be ill received?
Teknoe Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 Is it too cheesey or will it be ill received? It is definitely cheesey. Can't tell you if it will be ill received or not. That's up to her when she reads it, based on hundreds of factors even something as small as if she was having a bad day or something triggered her to think of you (in a negative light). I'd reword it to this myself though Dear ___, I know this letter is unrequested and may come unwelcomed, but I want you to know I think your spirit is beautiful. I couldn't help notice a fraction of vulnerability that made you so much more human. You are a special person. This isn't a request for a response, but really a way for me to tell you that my intentions were honest, and my feelings were true. I hope this road called life takes you on a fantastic journey. God bless in all you do. Sincerely, Sam In the end, it's up to you how to word things and whether to send it or not, but I'd focus on positive only, thus taking out "good and bad" at the end of your 1st draft.
Author UT_longhorn Posted July 27, 2011 Author Posted July 27, 2011 that's what i was afraid of. the corniness. and ur completely right..it's really her frame of mind when she reads it. when i wrote this, i was in a different frame of mind..and now that i read it..i sounds a bit much. i got some advice from a friend who told me...no hurt in waiting. and if i still feel the way i do after time..then i can contact her ... but after all the smoke has cleared.
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