eatgoodfood Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 So ive been getting really weird feelings towards my fiance. She uses birth control, so we dont worry about condoms. She is sick and is starting to take antibiotics which aparently can cause the birth control to not work properly. So we have to use condoms. Well i cant stand them and i honestly dont get any feeling. So i get mad at her and turn cold to her and tell her we just wont have sex. This happened before when she forgot to take the birth control on time. And i again got mad at her for having to use a condom. I really hate feeling mad about it and especially taking it out on her when its not her fault... but i feel like i cannot enjoy sex with a condom.... Help!
ShatteredReality Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 It's not fair to blame her for something she cannot control. I can completely understand being frustrated with the situation...but there have to be other solutions. There are other methods you can use when pills aren't working properly. For one thing, knowing she's on bc means you can know her cycle and calculate when she should be fertile...there are creams and different things you can use - one I used to use with my H before I had a tubal ligation was conceptrol. I mean, it's not fool proof, but it's something. Or you could do other things rather than regular sex...basically you just need to change it up...if condoms are that much of an issue, find another solution.
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