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You know what's lame, I like older men, like 25+ at least, and they're all scared to be pervs.

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"You're just plain jane girl to me.

 

 

You added this, and I am not going to say anything, but the last thing Id ever call myself is a plain Jane.

 

I can be straight up ugly, with my nose, huge lips, huge cheeks, etc. But theres no way Im plain, my features do not do that.

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Aw. I actually regret that so much, that outfit hahaha. I mean realistically speaking, I wear indian clothes all the time!

Prom wouldve been a good place to wear a nice dress, which I dont get a chance to wear. ever.

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I do think I am very pretty! I also notice, very pretty girls usually think I am very pretty too ;) I try not to let comments bother me, but they do. Im learnin quick though.

i know I am NOT everyones cup of tea, but its difficult because I am used to being told I am gorgeous. Wait, am I gonna get flamed for saying that...haha. the problem is me. I get compliments on the daily but i only concentrate on the nay-sayers. people can say im cute til the cows come home and die, but i will remember the one chick who said i was fugly or something. its a ****ty problem because it relies on others. i was just looking at myself in the mirror and dancing to this song, pretty girl rock and i felt like i looked gorgeous, my naked body and my hair and face. but now this comment has got me down

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"You're just plain jane girl to me.

 

 

You added this, and I am not going to say anything, but the last thing Id ever call myself is a plain Jane.

 

I can be straight up ugly, with my nose, huge lips, huge cheeks, etc. But theres no way Im plain, my features do not do that.

 

What's wrong with someone thinking you're plain? You don't have to be pretty to everyone darling trust me. If you go through life thinking that you're going to always be disappointing.

 

I didn't say you were UGLY, I just said that I don't think you're stunning. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

 

You could of gotten your point across without saying that, she just graduated high school FFS:rolleyes:

 

From her quoting yo umultiple times here, I can clearly see she was hurt by that even if she says she wasn't;)

 

Don't let it bother you, OP....

 

You truly are very pretty.

 

Since when is just out of high school a little girl? When I was 19 I had my own apartment, worked full time and went to school full time. It's time to start waking up and living in the real world.

 

I'm trying to show her that not everyone needs to think that she's the hottest thing on the planet, many men will find her attractive, many men find me attractive, many men will find us both attractive and some will find just her attractive and some will find just me attractive. That's fine!

 

BTW, TV, if it makes you feel better, women are MUCH more picky than men, I'm a woman, I don't need to find you attractive at all. I'm a woman, you're a woman, we aren't dating.

 

I just think you need to realize that in the real world not everyone is going to find you attractive and there is nothing wrong with that, work on what's inside while having confidence on whats outside.

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TV, you are 17? A minor, yes? Please use caution posting photos of yourself and talking about being naked.

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Uh, no I am 19.

 

And OK Audrina, OK, I get the point. I think you should show photos of yourself so we can see how sexy you are.

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Btw, Audrina, why would you think you need to make me feel better....

 

Logically speaking, I have a lot to offer, tons of hot guys think I am beautiful, and yeah, youre a lady. so why do you think i should care... Not saying I do or dont, but clearly you are going somewhere with this. you like to hurt me, dont lie.

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Since when is just out of high school a little girl? When I was 19 I had my own apartment, worked full time and went to school full time. It's time to start waking up and living in the real world.

 

I work in a bank. I make 21 dollars an hour. Ive paid my way through the first year of university. I am taking third year french. I dont live by myself because my parents love me too much and want to take care of me. If I wanted to move out tomorrow, I could. I get great grades.

 

What are you trying to prove...

I get your point girl.

 

But youre obviously trying hard to provoke me or hurt me, hmm. i wonder if i am taking the bait.

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Uh, no I am 19.

 

And OK Audrina, OK, I get the point. I think you should show photos of yourself so we can see how sexy you are.

 

Ah, the trick question.

 

This is the internet and by partaking on an internet forum I get to remain anonymous. If you want to see what I look like privately, I'll show you via PM, however I don't need validation from the internet to tell me I'm pretty.

 

I'm also 27, there's a big difference between a 19 year old face and a 27 year old one. :D

I'm very much your girl next door and I'd call myself plain, but my boyfriend and many men I meet tell me I'm stunning. Not everyone though. And I don't need everyone to think I am.

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Please do PM me.

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It's not letting me edit my post but I want to add, I'm actually not trying to hurt you, I'm trying to make you see that you can still be beautiful without everyone thinking that you are.

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Uh, no I am 19.

 

And OK Audrina, OK, I get the point. I think you should show photos of yourself so we can see how sexy you are.

 

Oh, my apologies. You're not a minor, all is good.

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Id rather be weird looking than plain.

 

I get your point, Audrina...Seriously, I do. I read somewhere that there are some people who have no idea what the whole deal is with Cindi Crawford...to that, i can only say, W.T.F.

 

but oh well =P

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Good for you, but some of us get very hurt by being called "plain"

 

Remember that, K?

 

I consider myself plain so I don't find it insulting. I'm sorry if you do, but that's something that comes from inside yourself.

 

I'm very much your every day woman, and there's nothing wrong with that, as a matter of fact, it's better than most. When I don't want to be plain anymore, I put on some makeup. :rolleyes:

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Thanks for the photos, Audrina.

 

That made me feel better.

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Id rather be weird looking than plain.

 

I get your point, Audrina...Seriously, I do. I read somewhere that there are some people who have no idea what the whole deal is with Cindi Crawford...to that, i can only say, W.T.F.

 

but oh well =P

 

Well you're not weird looking, at all. I think what you're trying to say is that you'd rather be seen as different than plain?

 

I don't think that Brad Pitt is attractive, I can see why other people do, but he's not my cup of tea.

 

 

You're welcome :) Hopefully you can see we're two very different people. You may not find me attractive and that's TOTALLY fine, more than a handful of people do. :) :) Just like more than a handful of people find you attractive too.

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No ****, and some of us are not at ease with it as you seem to be and when someone tells us we are plain to our faces...it hurts a bit and I think it's damn rude of you to say that to the OP. Who the hell are you to say that to someone anyways.

 

Who are you to tell me not to speak my mind? I mean really.

You're getting bent out of shape about something I didn't even say to you, I showed TV pictures of me, and she's probably laughing her way to the mirror to remind herself how much prettier she is than me, and that's totally fine.

 

Why is it fine? Because I think I'm beautiful and don't need her to think I am to validate my own views of my self beauty. I'm sorry if you aren't confident in how you look yet, that's something you should work on. Really. It'll save yourself a lot of pain down the road.

 

So if Visa puts on makeup, she'll not be plain anymore?:laugh:

 

So it's a makeup thing huh?

 

Well hell....slap on some makeup, Visa!

 

No, but I'm saying if I want to stand out I put on makeup. I called myself plain, it's not insulting, I'm just the girl next door but I don't want to be anything more than I already am.

 

What TV needs to slap on is true self confidence and happiness with herself and she'll be radiant to people who find her beautiful.

 

Same with you.

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Honestly, I have learned a lot from this site. Thank you guys and nay Sayers! ;)

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I'm sorry that you're so sensitive to the issue at hand but again, self confidence comes from within, if you are really having such an issue with it that you resorted to violence, why not go to therapy? I'm not saying that to be insulting, I've been in therapy since I was 14.

 

But really, sorry you've had it bad, I've been called freckle face all my life, but it's never bothered me. Thick skin helps. Being happy with yourself is essential.

 

I'm not going to sugar coat everything, I'm sorry if you don't like that, but you can continue to ride in on your white horse to the young lady's rescue, promise I won't spook it. :);)

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temp,

 

I can't believe you wore a sari to your prom :lmao: that is brave because those things are hard to move in.

 

My question for you is why are you so hung up on whether other people think you look attractive or not? This is just a guess and I maybe totally wrong but, are you afraid that your looks are the only thing that you have to offer and that if someone doesn't like how you look then they will not like you?

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In my opinion, when a boy falls love with a girl, there is no reason. You are so nice, and the next one is better. Now you should believe yourself and love yourself.

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Those are your pics on your profile?

 

Girl, you're nuts.

You've got some crazy-azz self esteem issues if you don't look in the mirror and believe you are gorgeous.

 

Maybe it's your personality????:lmao: Just kidding...

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Thank you, :)

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Thank you, :)

 

You truly don't look in the mirror and see a pretty girl?

 

You've got that happening- maybe you should delve into your personality a little more.

 

I'm not trying to be an ass- but are you selfish, all about you, angry, mean sometimes.... Just examples.

 

Maybe it's something to do with how you present yourself that you have to look into. Because a girl that looks like you should have no problem attracting males (or females:laugh:).

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