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So how is that relevant to this situation? He isn't trying to date you and is trying to date her. He isn't your boyfriend.

 

People have different tastes in women. You do know there are women that look like this:

http://api.ning.com/files/lAbNIxhUyNs41glIoop2YHCnqs04nDsJlhGjv8abmiFH55dgUG-a-T8lierMKBu-IAcd2kLfb0S3Sq-YXci9Iy901CcElQB2/KateUptonSportsIllustratedSwimsuit201111.jpg

 

Maybe his tastes are different than what you look like and that is why he thinks she is prettier.

 

 

Erks.

 

Never said he said she was prettier.

 

Btw- she is a model... You should see me when I do modelling.

 

If I had my own makeup crew, fitness team and fashion experts, I'd look hot too.

 

Stop hatin!

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I want the guy I date to think I am damned stunning.

Like my first bf did.

 

If you want that, then you need to be a guy's type. Some guys might have a neutral opinion on your looks, some might find you attractive, only guys of whom you are their type will find you damned stunning. If I'm not mistaking a forum member called Fondue said he was into the particular Indian chick look. So perhaps you guys should hook up? :D

 

It's kind of shallow, but nearly every look can be categorized as a particular type, in my opinion that goes for you too. That doesn't have to be bad, because you could take your advantage from it. What will not help you though is to have an unrealistic opinion of your own looks. Different people have different tastes.

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Yeah, Usaywhaa, you need to go **** yourself. How dare you say I need a barbed wire rubber band? You're obviously a troll, guy with 3 posts.

 

I have a friend who does photo shoots. I am going to take a photo just like that blonde girl.

 

I know I could pull it off.

 

Give me a few days ;)

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You're all acting like I dobt know thAt I am not everybody's type! Obi not, I have been out with guys who dont think I am beautiful.

 

I do not agree that this means I am not beautiful.

 

But there are standards. I love the way my eyelashes are so extremely log and thick, I have perfect breasts ( took a long time for me to realize this), amazing waist, now that I am working out, pretty lips, round tight ass, long curvy toned legs, I have great style; clothes, really nice hair that's wild but obedient, nice dimples and perfect teeth! No braces.

 

I also have to get my eyebrows done because then they'll go out of control, I have streth marks-faint but there, I get zits, I have a bulbous nose, I am insecure about all these things.

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I call other women beautiful allll the time.. Sigh. I've been called a lesbian because of it. I always point out beauties. I am always going, omg isn't she cute? I always say that stuff and I always appreciate gorgeous women!!! My best friend is like twice as pretty as me. She is ****in amazing.

 

Gah. no 1 understands me lolll

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You're all acting like I dobt know thAt I am not everybody's type! Obi not, I have been out with guys who dont think I am beautiful.

 

I do not agree that this means I am not beautiful.

 

But there are standards. I love the way my eyelashes are so extremely log and thick, I have perfect breasts ( took a long time for me to realize this), amazing waist, now that I am working out, pretty lips, round tight ass, long curvy toned legs, I have great style; clothes, really nice hair that's wild but obedient, nice dimples and perfect teeth! No braces.

 

I also have to get my eyebrows done because then they'll go out of control, I have streth marks-faint but there, I get zits, I have a bulbous nose, I am insecure about all these things.

 

temp,

 

you completely missed my point. I wasn't trying to say the blonde girl is prettier than you. I am sure you can get pics done or whatever and look good.

 

The point is regardless of how good you look there are some guys who won't like your look. Some guys (myself included) like blonde hair, fair skin, small waist big boobs etc...

 

So maybe this 26 year old guy likes the features of this other Indian girl. That isn't meant to put you down or say that you aren't attractive.

 

Its like ice-cream everybody has their favorite flavor but that doesn't mean the other flavors are bad.

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This girl has claimed to come on LS to attention seek before. I think it's best of we let this thread die down.

 

Otherwise all were going to hear is how beautiful she is, and how people can't compare up.

 

OP, you really need to stop trying to convince us otherwise, start being realistic. You are very pretty, but looks can only get you so far.

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Gah. no 1 understands me lolll

 

I'm not sure what point you're trying to make. Like I said, you're kind of all over the place, your energy seems directed in all directions instead of focused on a specific point. I'm not saying that is the case, I'm saying it seems like that. Having a high energy personality can be very useful and also attractive to guys, but it kind of defeats the point when those guys aren't getting you. Try to focus. Like I said, perhaps meditation or long distance running will be helpful to you, but that's up to you.

 

The very idea of self-control originates from Indian culture. I think the Buddha put it like this: "A person who controls its own mind is more powerful than a person who defeated a thousand armies."

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Lol alright - I am getting lost in translation here.

 

Yeah I have stretch makes- every girl I know gets them during puberty.

 

Actually no, a lucky few have escaped.

 

I think I should quit this site. You guys are awesome- seriously, you are! I know I'm insane but I also think I am not articulating myself well enough.

 

I am sorry.

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I need to take the bikini photos, yeah. I have done some modeling but that was a few years ago.

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Lol alright - I am getting lost in translation here.

 

Yeah I have stretch makes- every girl I know gets them during puberty.

 

Actually no, a lucky few have escaped.

 

I think I should quit this site. You guys are awesome- seriously, you are! I know I'm insane but I also think I am not articulating myself well enough.

 

I am sorry.

 

if this guy likes the other Indian chick, let him. find you own 26 year old virgin who will look past your nose and [insert your other insecurities here].

 

be happy with who you are and how god made you. Find someone who likes you for you and don't worry about the guy who likes someone else.

 

believe me you will be a lot happier.

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Temporary Visa, you're not even 20 yet (I don't think). You are one super fine looking young lady. You can't sweat this guy going for someone else. They'll be men tripping over each other to win your favor. Trust me. Be a little patient.

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Ugh I am sorry. First I thought I was defending my looks, but really I am defending the only thing that gives me confidence.

 

 

I feel like a trainwreck.

 

Alright. I'll figure This **** out myself.

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I know guys have different tastes. You guys had been awful nice- especially ptp and the dark haired girl. Seriously! All my guy friends think I am cute but theyve never expressed me bein beautiful to them...

 

I know all this stuff :(

I am trolling, in a way.

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But there are standards. I love the way my eyelashes are so extremely log and thick, I have perfect breasts ( took a long time for me to realize this), amazing waist, now that I am working out, pretty lips, round tight ass, long curvy toned legs, I have great style; clothes, really nice hair that's wild but obedient, nice dimples and perfect teeth! No braces.

 

http://www.snorgtees.com/media/catalog/product/e/p/epic_f_fullpic_2.jpg

 

Thanks for the lols! I'm having the time of my life reading your posts :lmao:

Professor X Established Member

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I think you need to tone it down a bit temporaryvisa. You're putting to much effort into the wrong things in life.

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Ugh I am sorry. First I thought I was defending my looks, but really I am defending the only thing that gives me confidence.

I feel like a trainwreck.

Alright. I'll figure This **** out myself.

 

That is a big problem that you need to fix.

 

Yes you are a pretty girl, but that isn't what is going to make you great.

 

Pretty girls are very common. Girls with a good heart, great sense of humor, intelligence, loyalty... ect. Rare as hell and worth more than 100 pretty girls.

 

If your confidence lives by your looks, then it will die with your looks.

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If your confidence lives by your looks, then it will die with your looks.

Wisely said.

 

And by the age of 35, you will start to see and feel it.

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Lol alright - I am getting lost in translation here.

 

Yeah I have stretch makes- every girl I know gets them during puberty.

 

Actually no, a lucky few have escaped.

I think I should quit this site. You guys are awesome- seriously, you are! I know I'm insane but I also think I am not articulating myself well enough.

 

I am sorry.

 

This maybe a good idea. I see LS Punching Bag in your future because what you write invites that kind of thing and the site seems to be running short on people geuinely interested in understanding. You're also easily provoked. It might be more productive to think about the kind of advice you want, then ask it. Or just contribute to others' questions in the meantime. I dunno.

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Thanks guys. :)

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btw, Pierre! You are sooo right about my mom being beautiful! look at her...

 

http://a4.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/166560_492932249726_516764726_5755776_491592_n.jpg

 

She is such a freakin confident woman. She has a birthmark on her face, the shape of India, and quite large, covers a big part of her face...She still thinks she is beautiful. She has 12 toes--she doesn't make an issue out of it. All her life, people have thought she is beautiful and smart--and those who didn't, didn't matter to her.

 

She is so successful here--In that photo she graduated from her CMA program. She is a brilliant, hard-working, loving, confident woman..

 

I hate how I'm not even 1/5th of her.

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the birthmark is on the opposite side of her face in that photo. it's quite dark, very noticeable and large. she doesn't even think about it for a second.

 

ugh, such a lovely woman.

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I'm sorry, I know they say if you don't have something nice to say don't say anything at all, but you have all these men fawning over you here to boost your confidence, I want to point something out about my previous statement that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

 

I do not find you attractive. You're not ugly, but you're not like omg, drop everything and look at that beautiful woman to me, either. You're just plain jane girl to me. Confidence comes from the inside and it's great that you have it (sometimes), but to me, you're really nothing special. Now lots of men don't find me attractive, but some do. Not EVERYONE has to think you're pretty as long as you think you're pretty.

 

Stop needing validation from others about your beauty, it comes from within and is very much only skin deep. Get over your looks and focus on who you are as a person, that's what matters the most. That's what makes you the most beautiful you can be.

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So, what is your point? You do not find me attractive, I get it. I never understood WHY people were telling me I am not beautiful--just because I say that I am?

 

You don't find me attractive at all.

I'm letting that sink in.

Thanks for your contribution.

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I know that not everyone has to find me pretty. It's not a huge deal.

 

But hey, do you like what I wore for prom?

 

Because I care a lot what you think about my ridiculous, out of place outfit.

I seriously do O.o

 

http://a7.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/30240_425128072153_510107153_5421845_5193701_n.jpg

 

http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash1/30240_425128067153_510107153_5421844_1452945_n.jpg

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