irc333 Posted July 26, 2011 Posted July 26, 2011 Okay, I think this is the first ever profile I seen that makes no sense. She stated in her profile, "I'm tried of ugly guys contacting me, you guys should know whether or not you're attractive! So if you're attractive, feel free to email me." What sense does that make? LOL
Sanman Posted July 26, 2011 Posted July 26, 2011 Score a date with her and at the end of the night, tell her she should have known she was paying for dinner!
Cracker Jack Posted July 26, 2011 Posted July 26, 2011 Damn! She plays no games! But yeah, don't know what to make of that.
ChessPieceFace Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 "I am shallow, just letting you know in advance!" That's what babelfish came up with anyway.
Rinas Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 Sounds ridiculous, I would skip right on. Nothing appealing about being shallow, next!
oaks Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 Okay, I think this is the first ever profile I seen that makes no sense. She stated in her profile, "I'm tried of ugly guys contacting me, you guys should know whether or not you're attractive! So if you're attractive, feel free to email me." What sense does that make? LOL Yes. It makes sense. Are you attractive? Don't email her if you're ugly because she's tired of that.
Author irc333 Posted July 27, 2011 Author Posted July 27, 2011 Of course I'm attractive, to SOME people. lol Yes. It makes sense. Are you attractive? Don't email her if you're ugly because she's tired of that.
zengirl Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 In truth, everyone is a bit shallow. We just don't write it out so bluntly. I think the bigger issue with what she's written is she wants guys who KNOW they're attractive. Aren't people who are 100% secure in their constant attractiveness to 100% of the population kind of douchebags? I mean, I think I'm a pretty girl, but I don't know that I'm attractive to everyone or to some random stranger in particular. . . so I think she's bound to get delusional guys more than hot guys. It's more a Logic Fail than an issue with her being shallow.
GivenUp0083 Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 Okay, I think this is the first ever profile I seen that makes no sense. She stated in her profile, "I'm tried of ugly guys contacting me, you guys should know whether or not you're attractive! So if you're attractive, feel free to email me." What sense does that make? LOL I don't believe you, no one would write this on their profile.
serial muse Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 "I am shallow, just letting you know in advance!" That's what babelfish came up with anyway. Babelfish is more useful than I thought. Anyway, I agree with this.
Sanman Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 I don't believe you, no one would write this on their profile. I've seen this is several profiles on OKC and POF. Usually women under 25
carhill Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 Load up this picture into your profile and invite her to 'spit like a man' As much as you post about dating profiles, it only follows that you should have some fun with this, right?
PhillyDude Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 Okay, I think this is the first ever profile I seen that makes no sense. She stated in her profile, "I'm tried of ugly guys contacting me, you guys should know whether or not you're attractive! So if you're attractive, feel free to email me." What sense does that make? LOL I see her point, it's insulting when a ugly person thinks they have a chance with you. I hate responses from ugly women and usually think it's a joke. If you know you are attractive then you want replies from people on your level. Or it can be that certain people just say-"what the hell i have nothing to lose" Example of that is me getting a reply from a 53 year old plus size woman who has two kids and lives in RI while I live in Philly. Now that is something that doesn't make sense-lol
GivenUp0083 Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 Sometimes it's hard to know where you stand in terms of your own attractiveness. Sometimes when you're a little unsure if you'd be appealing to a "hot girl" it's not uncommon to take a shot. They have nothing to lose and everything to gain by reaching out to them. On the other hand, I'm also offended sometimes when a woman who is 300+ lbs, lives 100 miles away, and/or 19 years old sends me a message showing interest. But then I think about what it would be like to be in their shoes, and the hard truth is that men never hit on them so they have to be proactive in their dating life. They're simply just sending out a spam email like many men do on dating sites. It's the only chance they have really....
zengirl Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 I see her point, it's insulting when a ugly person thinks they have a chance with you. I hate responses from ugly women and usually think it's a joke. If you know you are attractive then you want replies from people on your level. Or it can be that certain people just say-"what the hell i have nothing to lose" Example of that is me getting a reply from a 53 year old plus size woman who has two kids and lives in RI while I live in Philly. Now that is something that doesn't make sense-lol IMO, it's the distance and age that make that weirder than anything else. (And potentially kids thing if your profile states your preferences for kids.) I never got offended when someone I find unattractive messaged me. I DID get offended when someone outside of my specified age range and area did, because my profile specifically listed those things AND I said I wasn't interested in speaking to anyone outside of them at the bottom. So, clearly those guys don't read or don't respect boundaries. Or both.
PhillyDude Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 IMO, it's the distance and age that make that weirder than anything else. (And potentially kids thing if your profile states your preferences for kids.) I never got offended when someone I find unattractive messaged me. I DID get offended when someone outside of my specified age range and area did, because my profile specifically listed those things AND I said I wasn't interested in speaking to anyone outside of them at the bottom. So, clearly those guys don't read or don't respect boundaries. Or both. Women are known to ignore what I say in my profile too. I say I'm looking for a women who is interested in a foreplay encounter and they send a message saying-"tell me something about you that is not in your profile" HUH??
grkBoy Posted July 28, 2011 Posted July 28, 2011 Okay, I think this is the first ever profile I seen that makes no sense. She stated in her profile, "I'm tried of ugly guys contacting me, you guys should know whether or not you're attractive! So if you're attractive, feel free to email me." What sense does that make? LOL She should know this will only lead to uglier guys contacting her. I think it's very shallow and insensitive. It tells me I would never want to know a woman like that. Plus let's really see where she's at when she's older. Beauty is only skin deep. When I used online dating, I never had an issue with "ugly women" contacting me. Had a woman who lived out by a farm, single mom of three kids, ugly as sin, contact me. I made a polite reply that I wasn't interested and moved on. Plain as that. If she replied in some hateful tone, I'd simply delete and block her. No big deal. If women joining dating sites want to complain to death on why all the "hot guys" out there only want sex and not commitment, then perhaps they should realize that it's the dating pool they've been handed...and they can choose to be some hot guy's lay or shack up with an average joe who won't cheat. Hot guys who want commitment are rare and usually snatched up in their 20s.
Crabbies Posted July 28, 2011 Posted July 28, 2011 If you know you are attractive then you want replies from people on your level Sounds reasonable to me... Sometimes it's hard to know where you stand in terms of your own attractiveness. Sometimes when you're a little unsure if you'd be appealing to a "hot girl" it's not uncommon to take a shot. They have nothing to lose and everything to gain by reaching out to them. This is what she's trying to avoid... People who don't know whether they are attractive or not. I think she is being brutally honest, but straightforward, and for that she should be commended... She wants responders who believe themselves to be physically attractive. If she is very attractive a man who's not used to be with a super-hot chick will struggle with hanging out with her, because he will not feel comfortable; out of his league. Some men are used to being around beautiful women, they are not intimidated byt them, she's trying to make sure she gets replies from these kind of guys... I don't know if she's a bad person because she's stated her preference...
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