yeahlori Posted July 26, 2011 Posted July 26, 2011 A few months ago I met this new guy at my workplace. He is nice and cute and I started to chat him up daily. He seemed a little shy, but still talkative whenever I initiated the convo and he seemed happy to talk to me. I caught him looking at me several times and he would hold my gaze for about a second longer than most people. I can usually tell when a guy would be interested in me. It seemed like there was a possibility of something there. After a couple weeks of talking to him at work, I wanted to get to know him outside of work...so I took it upon myself to find his facebook profile (it was easy to find him) and decided to shoot him a message but I never got a reply. I know he's been on since I sent it to him because he has changed his profile pic quite a few times. I figured he either may have gotten creeped out by my finding him without asking him in person or something, or maybe he thought it was too soon and doesn't trust me to be a facebook friend just yet? I don't know. Either way, I took that as rejection and decided to try to just forget it and act like I didn't even send it. I didn't want him thinking I was some crazy clingy stalker chick so I just acted normal around him at work afterwards. After I realized he didn't reply to my message, I thought he would start ignoring me at work, but he still acts nice and friendly to me. He has even initiated a couple convos with me this week. There is still something different about the way he talks to me than with most guys. In person, I still get a feeling about him, and I can't get him out of my head. I just want to get to know him better. I'm not looking to jump into a relationship or anything, but I'm not sure if he is interested in getting to know me or if he's just being nice. I want to come off as interesting to him, not creepy or clingy. Any thoughts?
sitting Posted July 26, 2011 Posted July 26, 2011 A few months ago I met this new guy at my workplace. He is nice and cute and I started to chat him up daily. He seemed a little shy, but still talkative whenever I initiated the convo and he seemed happy to talk to me. I caught him looking at me several times and he would hold my gaze for about a second longer than most people. I can usually tell when a guy would be interested in me. It seemed like there was a possibility of something there. After a couple weeks of talking to him at work, I wanted to get to know him outside of work...so I took it upon myself to find his facebook profile (it was easy to find him) and decided to shoot him a message but I never got a reply. I know he's been on since I sent it to him because he has changed his profile pic quite a few times. I figured he either may have gotten creeped out by my finding him without asking him in person or something, or maybe he thought it was too soon and doesn't trust me to be a facebook friend just yet? I don't know. Either way, I took that as rejection and decided to try to just forget it and act like I didn't even send it. I didn't want him thinking I was some crazy clingy stalker chick so I just acted normal around him at work afterwards. After I realized he didn't reply to my message, I thought he would start ignoring me at work, but he still acts nice and friendly to me. He has even initiated a couple convos with me this week. There is still something different about the way he talks to me than with most guys. In person, I still get a feeling about him, and I can't get him out of my head. I just want to get to know him better. I'm not looking to jump into a relationship or anything, but I'm not sure if he is interested in getting to know me or if he's just being nice. I want to come off as interesting to him, not creepy or clingy. Any thoughts? Something a friend of mine told me today, love is all about taking risks (is that even the right word)... what i mean is maybe you should ask him out? friend date or whatever, hey dont even call it a date. just go out and do something. if you dont ask you cant know
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