jmwinters Posted July 26, 2011 Posted July 26, 2011 I am new to this forum and I would really appreciate if I canget some advices or ideas on how to approach this girl who I met at a BBQ. Hername is Sarah and she is a friend(Ray) of a friend(Sandy) and the mostdifficult part is that Sandy lives out of state and she doesn’t come back often.So having Sandy to bring her to another event is just impossible. I am soregret that I didn’t ask her number when I gave her and other people a ridehome after the BBQ, so the only lead I have is she lives a couple blocks fromme. Her house is right by the bus stop and I saw her drive by a couple times inthe morning when I was waiting for the bus to work. I was thinking maybe I cancross the street and let her see me and perhaps she might offer me a ride, butwhat if she doesn’t. Any other ideas,thoughts or comment? Thank you
Mr. Slim Posted July 26, 2011 Posted July 26, 2011 Just ask Sandy to find out if it's okay to give you her number.
Author jmwinters Posted July 26, 2011 Author Posted July 26, 2011 Just ask Sandy to find out if it's okay to give you her number. Thanks I had done that as well. I asked Ray to ask Sandy, but she just keeps ignoring him and keeps forgetting. I can feel Sandy has a crush on me so that why she refuses to help. Any other ideas?
Challenger Posted July 26, 2011 Posted July 26, 2011 Facebook? don't worry about being creepy bro. find her and tell her you want to see her again.
Mr. Slim Posted July 26, 2011 Posted July 26, 2011 Well, it's kind of a tough situation. You would think living so close that you would eventually run into each other. That's definitely the kind of contact you want to occur, the coincidental kind. Anything else may not be as well-received. If you are not willing to wait on chance, then frankly your crossing the street plan may be the only choice. Just be sure you have a plan of action in case she recognizes/acknowledges you but does not offer a ride. Also if this BBQ wasn't too long ago I would try and search her out on Facebook as well.
Author jmwinters Posted July 27, 2011 Author Posted July 27, 2011 I am going to stick with my cross street plan. Here is what I am envisioning, I pretty much know that she drives by in the morning arround the same time. So I am going to cross the street slowly from her left and stare at the driver window, most like she will notice if someone is staring then I smile and wave at her. Can't predict what her reaction would be, but I am sure she will recognize me because it wasn't long ago. Assuming that she wave back, I need to find a way to get on the car or at least talk to her, so maybe if I drop something right in front of the car and that would buy me some time and she might roll down the window or might come out and help. Once she get out her car and think I can get her to give me a ride. I need something really messy, something important that I need to deliver in an urgent matter, uhhmm and what would that be what can I drop? Any thoughts? Or if have any other action plans, please advise. Thank you
KathyM Posted July 27, 2011 Posted July 27, 2011 I am new to this forum and I would really appreciate if I canget some advices or ideas on how to approach this girl who I met at a BBQ. Hername is Sarah and she is a friend(Ray) of a friend(Sandy) and the mostdifficult part is that Sandy lives out of state and she doesn’t come back often.So having Sandy to bring her to another event is just impossible. I am soregret that I didn’t ask her number when I gave her and other people a ridehome after the BBQ, so the only lead I have is she lives a couple blocks fromme. Her house is right by the bus stop and I saw her drive by a couple times inthe morning when I was waiting for the bus to work. I was thinking maybe I cancross the street and let her see me and perhaps she might offer me a ride, butwhat if she doesn’t. Any other ideas,thoughts or comment? Thank you Facebook would be a good way to start out with. I think one of the initial purposes of fb was to be able to contact potential love interests where you don't have their phone number or any other way of contacting them. I don't know if you use fb, but if you do, you could contact her on it and make a friend request. If you don't know her name, you could contact your friend and ask for the girl's name. That's what I would recommend.
Author jmwinters Posted July 27, 2011 Author Posted July 27, 2011 I dont think she has facebk, couldn't find her, so there is no easy way on this one except my initial plan.
grkBoy Posted July 28, 2011 Posted July 28, 2011 You asked Ray to ask Sandy? Are you 12? Just ask her if you could call her or stay in touch. Email, Facebook, whatever. Personally, if she's not back often and lives out of state, you might want to ask how far you think this could go. Say she's at an out-of-state college. What happens if she meets some handsome frat boy who lives on campus with her?
Author jmwinters Posted July 29, 2011 Author Posted July 29, 2011 you asked ray to ask sandy? Are you 12? Just ask her if you could call her or stay in touch. Email, facebook, whatever. Personally, if she's not back often and lives out of state, you might want to ask how far you think this could go. Say she's at an out-of-state college. What happens if she meets some handsome frat boy who lives on campus with her? please read the full thread before reply and don't try to be a smart*** unless you are one
Mimi99 Posted July 29, 2011 Posted July 29, 2011 The crossing on the other side of the street is a good idea. If she doesn't stop and just wave, then how about doing the same thing again the next day and somehow ask her to stop the car and ask if would be interested in getting coffee together someday. Just a thought.
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