Noregret Posted July 26, 2011 Posted July 26, 2011 Ok so.. its been 11 months.. On Sunday it was my exMM's wedding anniversary..and he knows that I knew about it. I come back 2 days later from my vacation and for those who don't know, we are co-workers. Ha Ha! I asked him about some new client and he goes to me "Oh you should go meet him, he is a nice guy.. Maybe a little young for you.." I go "no thanks" and then he compares me to another co-worker of ours who used to love to meet people. My stomach churned.. because I couldn't believe he even had the audacity to say something like this, even if it was a joke... Not sure what he was looking for..? A reaction? I was not giving him any.. Incase any dumpers are reading this - please don't behave like @$$ (s) with your ex's.. we don't care about what you say for more than 2 mins - because it stings for just that long. BUT it makes us feel that you were a BAD choice to begin with and makes us wonder what we saw in you in the first place?? And any left over respect goes out of the window. Please maintain some dignity and respect the time that person shared with you. If not more..
Author Noregret Posted July 26, 2011 Author Posted July 26, 2011 How ironic. LOL I know what you mean.. Its just odd that some people try to sound so cool when they clearly are not!
Snowflower Posted July 26, 2011 Posted July 26, 2011 I am confused as to why you mentioned xMM wedding anniversary in your OP? That shouldn't matter? FWIW I think you handled MM rather pathetic matchmaking attempt very well by simply saying, "no thanks."
browndog319 Posted July 26, 2011 Posted July 26, 2011 My MM the whole time would always say things like "I want you to find the man you're going to marry, but I have to approve him first". WTF???? And, "You know I just want you and DD to be happy". However, whenever we were out together at work meetings (read, before we could go off and be alone AND when we were not with just our few friends who knew our relationship), if some man started talking to me he would "bow up." He grew up in Alabama and that was his phrase for getting jealous and inserting himself in his rightful place as my man. I can't tell you how many times he would use PDA in settings where it was unsafe because some guy was talking to me. Not to toot my own horn, but even though I'm a preppyish dresser, I'm a pretty cute girl for an almost 40 mom, so I do usually get talked to by men in bars. So it happened ALL the time. REALLY, you want to check out my future husband, MM? REALLY? So you can then shove your tongue down my throat and mark your territory? You wanna do a toast at the wedding, too?
Author Noregret Posted July 26, 2011 Author Posted July 26, 2011 My MM the whole time would always say things like "I want you to find the man you're going to marry, but I have to approve him first". WTF???? And, "You know I just want you and DD to be happy". However, whenever we were out together at work meetings (read, before we could go off and be alone AND when we were not with just our few friends who knew our relationship), if some man started talking to me he would "bow up." He grew up in Alabama and that was his phrase for getting jealous and inserting himself in his rightful place as my man. I can't tell you how many times he would use PDA in settings where it was unsafe because some guy was talking to me. Not to toot my own horn, but even though I'm a preppyish dresser, I'm a pretty cute girl for an almost 40 mom, so I do usually get talked to by men in bars. So it happened ALL the time. REALLY, you want to check out my future husband, MM? REALLY? So you can then shove your tongue down my throat and mark your territory? You wanna do a toast at the wedding, too? Yeah that happened to me where my MM wanted to "approve" my future suitors. I wasn't thinking about future suitors.. my mistake!
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