immitable Posted July 28, 2011 Posted July 28, 2011 (edited) I've got a feeling that she is torn between you and her ex, If I were you I'd forget about him (for a moment) and try to win her if you feel that she might be the one, be honest, trust your instincts and trust yourself. For some reason I think that NC is just used too often on this forum and in some wrong contexts. NC is used for your own purpose, to heal after a breakup and to try to figure out what you want - in your case might be to regain that self confidence back so use it if you think it might help you. Another possibilty is --since we're at what ifs--it could happen that her ex screws up again and she wants you back. Edited July 28, 2011 by immitable
Author wreckedhero Posted July 28, 2011 Author Posted July 28, 2011 Thanks but I've sent a letter declaring my love for her, ive texted her plenty of times telling her how much I like her, i've asked her to come for a meal with me, i've paid her lots of compliments, i've been nasty to her at times, i've told her I love her, I've begged via texts for her to come back and I'm scared that if I continue to do that she will think I'm desperate and creepy. She knows I won't take her back if she does anything with any guy and I think the onus is now on her to tell me how she feels. I'll wait and see what she texts me and I will ask for advice on here before making any rash decisions but I'm not replying to her last text and if she doesnt make an effort with me then it will just prove she had no feelings for me. Just a case of being patient I suppose. I do want her back but I'm not prepared to go through these feelings again and every time it seems I'm getting somewhere she breaks off. I'll start contacting her again when she tells me she wants me. Nothing more or nothing less. If not then it's over. But thanks for your advice.
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