xisnotx Posted July 26, 2011 Posted July 26, 2011 -A girl who has good mother extincts. -A girl who knows that life can suck sometimes and that it isn't always somebody's fault. -A girl who appreciates effort. -A girl who doesn't take life that seriously. -A girl who is viciously ambitious. -A girl who can hold intelligent conversation. -A girl who has strong opinions, but doesn't let those opinions get in the way of the more important things in life...ie actually living it. -A girl who will never let me treat her like crap and get away with it. -A girl that will be as happy as I am whenever we are together, and as sad as I am whenever we are apart. -A girl who has the ability to get me out of my head and appreciate life for what it is...not what it could be. So where do I find this girl?
mr.goodguy Posted July 29, 2011 Posted July 29, 2011 xisnotx how old are you? are you trying to find a girl or a woman? Boys date girls and men date women... Until you've become a man you will not find a woman that has all of the above criteria. If you want someone that is viciously ambitious, or can hold an intelligent conversation then you better reciprocate. cause if you dont, you'll lose her. Right now this 'person' is your ideal. Improve yourself and you'll attract whatever you are looking for.
Author xisnotx Posted July 29, 2011 Author Posted July 29, 2011 I'm at that awkward stage where all I see are girls but I want a woman. Ambition and intelligence are things that I don't lack, (subjectively speaking of course).. So..in a sea of girls, how do I spot the women? Where are the women hiding? Especially women with the above qualities... Not improving myself is something I do infrequently..
Forever Learning Posted July 29, 2011 Posted July 29, 2011 xisnotx how old are you? Improve yourself and you'll attract whatever you are looking for. Great advice! I have to agree. Develop your own personal integrity, and look for this characteristic in the woman you are seeking. It will save you alot of grief and heartache in the long run (yes I said the same thing on the other "perfect man" thread, it applies to either gender) http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/integrity
mr.goodguy Posted July 29, 2011 Posted July 29, 2011 I suppose to answer "where do I find this woman?" You will never find the perfect woman....however you will find different combinations of what you want. With experience you will narrow down your essential needs in a partner. It is quite possible you need to switch up where you are hanging out and who you are hanging out with in order to attract. There is obviously no clear answer of where...why not volunteer and try to meet women that way. At least you'd know she'd be caring enough to help out others. Change is good..try something different and you never know what you'll get back in return.
mr.goodguy Posted July 29, 2011 Posted July 29, 2011 I suppose to answer "where do I find this woman?" You will never find the perfect woman....however you will find different combinations of what you want. With experience you will narrow down your essential needs in a partner. It is quite possible you need to switch up where you are hanging out and who you are hanging out with in order to attract. There is obviously no clear answer of where...why not volunteer and try to meet women that way. At least you'd know she'd be caring enough to help out others. Change is good..try something different and you never know what you'll get back in return.
AngryPMS Posted July 29, 2011 Posted July 29, 2011 Shes out there somewhere. You will find her one day somewhere you least expect it.
spacegirlspiff Posted July 30, 2011 Posted July 30, 2011 -A girl who has good mother extincts. -A girl who knows that life can suck sometimes and that it isn't always somebody's fault. -A girl who appreciates effort. -A girl who doesn't take life that seriously. -A girl who is viciously ambitious. -A girl who can hold intelligent conversation. -A girl who has strong opinions, but doesn't let those opinions get in the way of the more important things in life...ie actually living it. -A girl who will never let me treat her like crap and get away with it. -A girl that will be as happy as I am whenever we are together, and as sad as I am whenever we are apart. -A girl who has the ability to get me out of my head and appreciate life for what it is...not what it could be. So where do I find this girl? That's me But seriously I doubt you would be able to find a girl/woman who fits all the above.
jamesc5 Posted July 31, 2011 Posted July 31, 2011 @spacegirlspiff You seem like an interesting person. I'd like to get to know you more. Unfortunately I wasn't able to find the pm you button.
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