chelle21689 Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 I was on a double date with my cousin and her boyfriend. Our guys were playing that sledge hammer game you usually see at the fairs to test your strength. My guy kept setting the high score and beating his own record and I found it a huge turn on. He is fit and lean, I didn't expect him to be so strong. Also when he plays sports and shows his competitive side it's hot. What are some things a girl does that turn men on? Not what we're wearing or how we smell but things we actually do. Some have said the way a girl walks with the wiggle of the hips, fixing bra straps, stretching....what else? Sort of off topic but that muscle part of the forearm is sexy even though it's not a big thing. Most guys don't have it hahaha
Feelsgoodman Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 (edited) What are some things a girl does that turn men on? Not what we're wearing or how we smell but things we actually do. Some have said the way a girl walks with the wiggle of the hips, fixing bra straps, stretching....what else? Going dutch and not yapping her mouth all the time. Edited July 25, 2011 by Feelsgoodman
ptp Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 I was on a double date with my cousin and her boyfriend. Our guys were playing that sledge hammer game you usually see at the fairs to test your strength. My guy kept setting the high score and beating his own record and I found it a huge turn on. He is fit and lean, I didn't expect him to be so strong. Also when he plays sports and shows his competitive side it's hot. What are some things a girl does that turn men on? Not what we're wearing or how we smell but things we actually do. Some have said the way a girl walks with the wiggle of the hips, fixing bra straps, stretching....what else? Sort of off topic but that muscle part of the forearm is sexy even though it's not a big thing. Most guys don't have it hahaha Just being you. If a guy likes you then what you do is sexy. I am currently dating a girl and she exudes confidence. That is very sexy to me. Guys can tell by body language which girls know they are attractive. Those type of a girls have a way of talking/walking where they know every man in the room wants them. It is very sexy. That and grabbing my arm when walking. Its not sexy but it is reassuring that a girl likes you when she makes the effort to grab my arm.
Casablanca Posted July 26, 2011 Posted July 26, 2011 Be funny, make him laugh, find something you both have in common...also show you can laugh at your own expense, tell a little embarrassing story
Nexus One Posted July 26, 2011 Posted July 26, 2011 - Whispering or talking in my ear. - Being a positive chatterbox and talking with enthusiasm. - Having a flower in her hair. (or multiple) That being said, in certain situations I dislike it when girls get turned on by the strength of guys. For example it's not uncommon for girls to gather around a fight between guys. There are few things that get guys more aggressive than girls gathering around them when they're about to fight. I'd rather want girls to leave when a guy is beating the sh*t out of another guy, because those girls are causing the guy's testosterone to gush through his body, which makes his aggression worse. Some girls love seeing that display of strength and that pisses me off, they'd better just leave out of sight in such situations. Some girls even encourage the most aggressive male, causing him to see sheer blackness in front of his eyes out of aggressive rage.
Author chelle21689 Posted July 26, 2011 Author Posted July 26, 2011 I'm not attracted to guys that fight.... O.o But what was special about this guy was that he seems soooo nice. Too nice where a guy could probably try to pick on him but he'd be able to defend himself. I guess...it's not like what you're thinking.
Feelin Frisky Posted July 26, 2011 Posted July 26, 2011 I'd say find something that looks very natural for you and make it part of your unique "way". I could say make sexy faces for instance but if that's not you, it will back fire. I don't mean to say develop a front or personae you turn on an off--just sort of inventory your best attributes and know when and how to accentuate them. I find some things that women do that establish their "way" is what starts to get under my skin in the best kind of way that gets me interested. Over the years of working in a big office in NY some things that have caught my eye are when girls wear sweaters over their shoulders but do not put their arms in the sleeves and fold their arms when they walk--holding up their breasts. If they are very feminine, they look like they are a little chilled and need me to hold them and warm them up. I like when some of them act a little proud and look back over their shoulder and then snap their heads forward as if to say "hmmph, I know I got it going on and you can't have none". I remember once after a Christmas party we all went to another bar and there was a new girl who I didn't know yet but I saw her around a few times before that party. Well, she had a little alcohol in her and she acted like Melanie Griffith in "Working Girl" where she met Harrison Ford in the bar and they didn't know each other. She didn't mean to make all these kind of feminine sexy gestures--or maybe she made it look unintentional--but I was sold on her totally after that. She made the most of every scintillating move.
Els Posted July 26, 2011 Posted July 26, 2011 I think this is really as individual a question as 'What are things men do that turns a girl on?'. Different people have different preferences regarding actions and mannerisms. While a girl giving the come-hither look would do it for some guys, others prefer a shy, evasive demeanour. While some men like a woman to be very feminine, others find it hot when they can do the things men can. So you'll get a large variety of answers, but none may be applicable to the guy you're interested in.
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