one goal Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 For the girl I like on the last day of class is it okay to buy her a small gift, or a giftcard to the mall? Would she appreciate that?
Philosoraptor Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 I know nothing about your relationship with this girl, but if you have at least a friendship then sure. If you want something more maybe leave your email address or phone number and see if she contacts you.
Author one goal Posted July 25, 2011 Author Posted July 25, 2011 I know nothing about your relationship with this girl, but if you have at least a friendship then sure. If you want something more maybe leave your email address or phone number and see if she contacts you. Well yea she has my number from class because we text each other.
carhill Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 Friends sometimes send me random things, like cards or small gifts (nothing romantic) and I do similar. If you 'like' her, ask her out on a date. No need to butter her up with stuff. If she's a good friend (platonic friend), nothing wrong with an appropriate card or gift to bid her farewell from the school year. Do what you want to do and accept the results. Fuggetabout expecting your actions to imbue some sort of reaction or reciprocation. Good luck
Philosoraptor Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 Send her a picture of your junk... it worked out for Brett Favre
Author one goal Posted July 25, 2011 Author Posted July 25, 2011 Friends sometimes send me random things, like cards or small gifts (nothing romantic) and I do similar. If you 'like' her, ask her out on a date. No need to butter her up with stuff. If she's a good friend (platonic friend), nothing wrong with an appropriate card or gift to bid her farewell from the school year. Do what you want to do and accept the results. Fuggetabout expecting your actions to imbue some sort of reaction or reciprocation. Good luck I've asked her out before. She said she doesn't want to hangout with me.
Philosoraptor Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 I've asked her out before. She said she doesn't want to hangout with me. Well that throws a wrinkle into things. If that's the case, how often to you text? Is it a constant thing like close friends or not very often?
Damien Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 First off, oaks..nice call! (The previous thread one goal posted) Still no, and when you post a new thread in 12 hours asking the same question the answer is no for that one as well. @Carhill: The girl in question has already rejected the OP many times now. She doesn't even want to hang out with him let alone date him. =/ We've all pitched in and given him solid advice the past few weeks but he doesn't want to listen to us and move on. @one goal: Yes, she will appreciate it. Appreciate as in, keep the gift / use the gift card and continue as normal. Just save it to be honest, you'll find a better girl that'll actually want to hang out, give HER a gift.
Author one goal Posted July 25, 2011 Author Posted July 25, 2011 Well that throws a wrinkle into things. If that's the case, how often to you text? Is it a constant thing like close friends or not very often? Well one point a few times a day we text.
carhill Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 OP, I remember you from your unrequited pursuit of a teacher. In your case, if the woman does not wish to date you and you wish to acknowledge the end of the school year, a *friendly* (non-romantic) card or gift *may* be appropriate. Since she is in proactive contact with you, this presumes that she does not abhor your presence, so do something friendly and leave it at that.
Philosoraptor Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 Well one point a few times a day we text. Well at one point doesn't mean now, how often is it now?
kiss_andmakeup Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 No no no no no no no no no. No. NO! NO!!! Jaysus H. Christ. Why do I even click on your threads? They are endless sources of frustration (and amusement, I'll admit).
denise_xo Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 Just lay off the stalking. From your last thread, the texts she sent you said 'back the hell off'.
Lucky_One Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 You aren't in grade school, one goal, so no - giving a gift to an acquaintance is in appropriate. If you are going to give the same gift to every member of your group or every member of your class, then it might be a nice gesture. But you are doing this solely to try to bribe her into going on a date with you. She has told you multiple times that she has no desire to date you or even hang out with you. She might take your giftcard and spend it, but she might also laugh at you behind your back with her friends (OMG this guy is so desperate that he will send me a $20 card to Auntie Anne's pretzels and think that it changes my opinion of him) (which will hurt your feelings, or she might return it to you (which will hurt your feelings), or she might report you to the teacher (which will hurt your feelings), or she might say Thanks but leave me alone (which will hurt your feelings). But she is NOT going to say "Oooo you are so thoughtful, fantastic and rich - please bone me".
Lilmisus Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 I wish all guys were like One Goal. Always so eager to text, call, go out, and buy girls things. Even the word "no" or the phrase "I don't think so" doesn't phase him. You make me laugh One Goal
zengirl Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 I sincerely hope you're a clever troll, one goal, because if you're a real person with these questions, it's just sad. And to answer your question: No.
Author one goal Posted July 25, 2011 Author Posted July 25, 2011 OP, I remember you from your unrequited pursuit of a teacher. In your case, if the woman does not wish to date you and you wish to acknowledge the end of the school year, a *friendly* (non-romantic) card or gift *may* be appropriate. Since she is in proactive contact with you, this presumes that she does not abhor your presence, so do something friendly and leave it at that. If I get a giftcard how much shoudl it be? Also should I put it in a card? or if I get a gift what should it be?
Nexus One Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 I wish all guys were like One Goal. Always so eager to text, call, go out, and buy girls things. Even the word "no" or the phrase "I don't think so" doesn't phase him. You make me laugh One Goal Don't be surprised when he starts PM'ing you. That being said, I think I might have found a video of One Goal in action: http://bit.ly/pKuOLQ
Philosoraptor Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 Just put a picture of your junk in the card. It might make her lustful for you and then you will have her.
Author one goal Posted July 25, 2011 Author Posted July 25, 2011 I decided to buy her a giftcard. I thought $20 was a little much, and $10 not enough so I split the difference and got a $15 one. I'll buy a card for it tomorrow. Will she like it you think? I don't expect her to give me a bj for it rofl, but do you think she will like the gesture and maybe think differently of me?
oaks Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 First off, oaks..nice call! (The previous thread one goal posted) Yeah. I thought I'd get in the advice before the question for a change, since nothing else seems to be getting through with this guy.
serial muse Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 I decided to buy her a giftcard. I thought $20 was a little much, and $10 not enough so I split the difference and got a $15 one. I'll buy a card for it tomorrow. Will she like it you think? I don't expect her to give me a bj for it rofl, but do you think she will like the gesture and maybe think differently of me? No, she will not like it. She's told you repeatedly that she wants you to leave her alone. She will take this as another proof that you choose not to listen to her and that you will only ignore her requests. So, you will only further confirm her decision not to even be friends with you.
Teknoe Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 I decided to buy her a giftcard. I thought $20 was a little much, and $10 not enough so I split the difference and got a $15 one. STOP! It has to be a MINIMUM of $100 if you wish her to change her mind of you. She will be IMPRESSED when it's 100 dollars or more. $15 is chump change. And you ain't a chump, bud. $100 or GO HOME.
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