y2k Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 (edited) With the exceptions of the usual questions to get to know about each other "where are you from" "what do you do??", etc, what are other topics that women tend to like to talk about when they're talking to a guy they either like or date???? What are the best topics, in all your opinions, that won't bore a woman????? Hopefully this turns into an interesting thread. Edited July 25, 2011 by y2k
KathyM Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 I think the goal of dating is to get to know the person, so you should be asking her things that would help this process along. Find out what her opinions are about a variety of topics. Bring up the topic, and ask her what she thinks about it. Talk about what your goals or dreams are in life, and ask her about hers. Ask her what kinds of things she likes to do, or what she would like to try someday. Tell her about things you think would be fun or interesting to do.
Author y2k Posted July 25, 2011 Author Posted July 25, 2011 But I would love for more specific topics rather than the usual "get you know you topics". Not only for dates, but for courting as well. Lets get general topics and see what others say.
oaks Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 I think it depends what the other person finds interesting. I'll happily talk about current affairs with the right person, but that'll bore some people to tears. I briefly dated a girl who was a horror film buff... she could talk in fine detail about this stuff, but I couldn't keep up so it wasn't a good topic (for me).
thatone Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 whatever topic she responds well to. if you get a yes/no answer and then silence, that's the wrong one. if she lights up and starts talking at length about another one, that's the correct one.
manders_01 Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 I like to talk about sports and music. I know that there is a faction out there that believes that men find women into sports a turn off but I'm never going to change the fact that I love them. All the men I've dated think it's great and we talk a lot about it.
zengirl Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 There is no magical topic. What I think works best (for everyone, male and female) is trying to get to know the person you're with on a date, and the conversation will flow from there. A date is not a presentation. Ideally, it should not be an interview either, but it's closer to that, I guess. . . more about asking questions, noting information, and sharing common ground than anything else. Good questions to ask are anything about what they like to do, read, watch, listen to, where they've been, their background, whatever. It always seems to flow naturally enough for me if I'm trying to get to know someone, so hard to say, but just ask about what she likes and tell her things you like and see if you can find common ground.
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