luv2run Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 Ok so i know this sounds like a teenage question...but it's not. I'm just curious of what this could mean... I have this ex-fwb--we hooked up and hung out for around 2 months and then it fizzled out. We didn't contact each other for a month or so and then ended up back in the same social circle again. I know he now has a gf and he is really into her, so I pretty much stay away from him, with the exception of a hello here and there and maybe once in awhile a small smile. Well last Friday we were around each other again (his gf does not hang out here) and we were pretty much ignoring each other, then later from across the room we made eye contact --but it was long! Maybe 5-6 seconds. Neither of us smiled or nodded or anything. Later he came by and made small talk briefly with me and a couple of people around us...he went out of his way to do this. So my question is this...could this mean anything? interest? or could it mean nothing? My friend told me it would definitely mean something if he was single but the fact that he has a gf changes that. So would he just stare if he still found me attractive but was not really interested. He wasn't looking at me puzzled or anything. sorry for the long post over 5 seconds of nothing! but I am really curious. Any comments, insights would be appreciated!
thatone Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 when you agree to a FWB arrangement you have to accept the likely fact that you will NEVER have any further involvement with that person, and once the FWB arrangement ends it will be like you never knew them.
Author luv2run Posted July 26, 2011 Author Posted July 26, 2011 Thatone --Maybe i use that term loosely...not really a FWB but a friend, we casually dated but I had just gotten out of a serious relationship and wasn't ready to really date. Just wanted to have fun. Does that change anything? Would a man hold a gaze for that long without it meaning something? I know he found me really attractive and liked me then....we had a lot of fun together. when you agree to a FWB arrangement you have to accept the likely fact that you will NEVER have any further involvement with that person, and once the FWB arrangement ends it will be like you never knew them.
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