countingstarsagain Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 Out of the blue, my boyfriend of over a year decides he doesn't know what he wants and needs a break from our relationship. He went to a bachelor party then a wedding and while doing these things, decided he misses his friends and their times together. He feels like he wants to do that for a while. So he goes back to his hometown with his buddies for the weekend and I'm stuck here heartbroken. He says that if he dates anyone in the next two years, it will be me and me only. He thinks I'm a perfect girlfriend but just doesn't want a relationship right now. Should I take it as we have broken up and work on moving on? And if so, should I maintain strict NC? I've been doing it for the last three days, and boy does it hurt like he!!. Just trying to make it through.
wilsonx Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 Out of the blue, my boyfriend of over a year decides he doesn't know what he wants and needs a break from our relationship. He went to a bachelor party then a wedding and while doing these things, decided he misses his friends and their times together. He feels like he wants to do that for a while. So he goes back to his hometown with his buddies for the weekend and I'm stuck here heartbroken. He says that if he dates anyone in the next two years, it will be me and me only. He thinks I'm a perfect girlfriend but just doesn't want a relationship right now. This is a lie, hes saying this to string you along Should I take it as we have broken up and work on moving on? And if so, should I maintain strict NC? I've been doing it for the last three days, and boy does it hurt like he!!. Just trying to make it through. Yes, you should take it as you are broken up and work on moving on. He's stringing you along just in case his new prospect doesnt work out. Keep NC, it hurts like a bitch, but keep sticking to it and move on. I wouldnt take him back unless he comes back and says... I'm so sorry, I made the worst mistake of my life letting you go, will you give me another chance. But I will be honest, he probably has someone else in his sights right now
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