triciamm Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 Brief synopsis, I was with my ex for 3 years (he shall be referred to as "A"). Previously, I had hooked up with one of his friends ("B") and he wound up kinda dicking me around so that stopped way before A and I started going out. After breaking up with A I started casually (and very secretively) dating B, who's a military man and I don't get to see him that often. B and I are getting closer... but now for the "oh ****" twist. "C". C is B's good friend and friends with A as well, he just broke up with his girlfriend of 2 years and we went for a couple drinks. I had no intentions of sleeping with him, we spent the whole night talking, but one thing led to another and.... yeah. So the question is, do I tell B anything? C doesn't know about me and B (for fear of A finding out) and I'm 99% certain that B doesn't know about C, C being a one-time drunken idiotic overemotional uh-oh. I don't want to LIE to B, but he hasn't been talking to me all day and so maybe I'm just being paranoid, but I'm kinda freaking out. If he asks me directly, do I tell him the truth? We generally keep our personal lives personal, assuming that we behave safely. Help
mo mo Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 on next Maury... No bust seriously, your best bet is to let go of all 3 guys and start fresh. Messing around with people who are friends with each other is just asking for trouble. On another note, why do people always blame it on the alcohol? I dunno about you guys, but I don't sleep with people I am not interested in no matter how drunk I get.
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