Citizen Erased Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 Legally, I don't believe so. They'd both have to be very careful if the other person is below the age of consent, which differs from state to state. It's not below some parents to press charges against a guy for statutory rape even if they've done nothing wrong, just to get the guy away from their little princess. Really though, it depends on what the actual ages of the people are. A 20 year old after a 15 year old is a bit weird to me.
Author angel_tenniser Posted July 24, 2011 Author Posted July 24, 2011 (edited) Legally, I don't believe so. They'd both have to be very careful if the other person is below the age of consent, which differs from state to state. It's not below some parents to press charges against a guy for statutory rape even if they've done nothing wrong, just to get the guy away from their little princess. Really though, it depends on what the actual ages of the people are. A 20 year old after a 15 year old is a bit weird to me. Well i started hugging him a lot so its my fault and will not tell anyone/ HIS kisses are my favorite of anyone. He is 24 but compliments my cleavage so he doesnt like me for a child reason. Edited July 24, 2011 by angel_tenniser
oaks Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 He is 24 but compliments my cleavage so he doesnt like me for a child reason. Then he is too old for you and is probably only interested in your body and having sex with you rather than being interested in you as a person. Stick with horny teenagers!
Author angel_tenniser Posted July 24, 2011 Author Posted July 24, 2011 Then he is too old for you and is probably only interested in your body and having sex with you rather than being interested in you as a person. Stick with horny teenagers! i just like kissing/hugging. boys undo your dress too much that ive dated. but for sure i see your point about too old. just really sexy like im on edge of drooling from him.
oaks Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 i just like kissing/hugging. boys undo your dress too much that ive dated. but for sure i see your point about too old. just really sexy like im on edge of drooling from him. Cute. Well, tell the younger boys to keep their hands outside your dress and to stop trying to take it off.
Author angel_tenniser Posted July 24, 2011 Author Posted July 24, 2011 Cute. Well, tell the younger boys to keep their hands outside your dress and to stop trying to take it off. Being bossy makes me feel rude/guilty but i will try next time.
Citizen Erased Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 Well i started hugging him a lot so its my fault and will not tell anyone/ HIS kisses are my favorite of anyone. He is 24 but compliments my cleavage so he doesnt like me for a child reason. How old are you?
Author angel_tenniser Posted July 24, 2011 Author Posted July 24, 2011 How old are you? 15 but date 17or18 always except for the 24 so its not a big jump.
anne1707 Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 How old are you? The OP is only 15. An age gap of 9 years at this stage in her life is too much. She and her bf will most likely be at very different levels of maturity and expect very different things in a relationship.
oaks Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 Being bossy makes me feel rude/guilty but i will try next time. You have to be bossy if they're going further than you want them to, or further than they should. Horny teenage boys will push the boundaries of what they can get away with, and if you don't get used to telling them to stop you'll end up being a mom much sooner than you were expecting.
Citizen Erased Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 The OP is only 15. An age gap of 9 years at this stage in her life is too much. She and her bf will most likely be at very different levels of maturity and expect very different things in a relationship. I completely agree. Even 3 years is too much really. I'm this guy's age and the thought of doing anything with a 15 year old is gross to me. Something is up with this guy if he's going after someone that's 15, don't care what the circumstances.
Professor X Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 Well i started hugging him a lot so its my fault and will not tell anyone/ HIS kisses are my favorite of anyone. He is 24 but compliments my cleavage so he doesnt like me for a child reason. Cute, so he's a pedophile who wants you for the sex. Good luck. P.S. enlighten me please, what is child reason? Other than the obvious fact that cleavage comments are for mature ladies only.
rafallus Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 Cute, so he's a pedophile who wants you for the sex. Pedophiles are attracted to prepubescents. Any sex he will have with you would be classified as statuory rape (essentially, law thinks you are too young and stupid to consent). In his case, I really wouldn't. If your parents got to know, he's about to become a jailbird.
zengirl Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 I completely agree. Even 3 years is too much really. I'm this guy's age and the thought of doing anything with a 15 year old is gross to me. Something is up with this guy if he's going after someone that's 15, don't care what the circumstances. Seriously. A 24 year old man will not want to date a child -- and 15 is a child, mentally if not physically -- if he's normal and well-adjusted.
Lucky_One Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 OP, are you just jumping from guy to guy now, depending on whatever whim leads you to kiss them? I thought you were in love with the guy you were seeing a month or so ago?
Professor X Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 Pedophiles are attracted to prepubescents. Any sex he will have with you would be classified as statuory rape (essentially, law thinks you are too young and stupid to consent). In his case, I really wouldn't. If your parents got to know, he's about to become a jailbird. Well, to be accurate, the definition of a pedophile is a person who is sexually attracted to children. Now, let's agree that being a child has less to do with your age and more to do with your behavior. The OP, but the way she writes and thinks, is, by all means, a child.
Author angel_tenniser Posted July 24, 2011 Author Posted July 24, 2011 You have to be bossy if they're going further than you want them to, or further than they should. Horny teenage boys will push the boundaries of what they can get away with, and if you don't get used to telling them to stop you'll end up being a mom much sooner than you were expecting. hope not, no kids till 30 please I completely agree. Even 3 years is too much really. I'm this guy's age and the thought of doing anything with a 15 year old is gross to me. Something is up with this guy if he's going after someone that's 15, don't care what the circumstances. he only likes me because of my bust and that is for sure not a childish thing. my dads friends whispered about my cleavage too once. Cute, so he's a pedophile who wants you for the sex. Good luck. P.S. enlighten me please, what is child reason? Other than the obvious fact that cleavage comments are for mature ladies only. child reason is if he likes a childish quality Pedophiles are attracted to prepubescents. Any sex he will have with you would be classified as statuory rape (essentially, law thinks you are too young and stupid to consent). In his case, I really wouldn't. If your parents got to know, he's about to become a jailbird. no doubt will not be at my home when we kiss lol!! Angel, Does he realise how young you are? yep he picks me from school (i walked home before that).
Author angel_tenniser Posted July 24, 2011 Author Posted July 24, 2011 Seriously. A 24 year old man will not want to date a child -- and 15 is a child, mentally if not physically -- if he's normal and well-adjusted. but you cant choose who you fall in love with, no? OP, are you just jumping from guy to guy now, depending on whatever whim leads you to kiss them? I thought you were in love with the guy you were seeing a month or so ago? he changed schools cos his dad got a job far away. only been with 2 guys so far Well, to be accurate, the definition of a pedophile is a person who is sexually attracted to children. Now, let's agree that being a child has less to do with your age and more to do with your behavior. The OP, but the way she writes and thinks, is, by all means, a child. hard to judge that
Professor X Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 but you cant choose who you fall in love with, no? he changed schools cos his dad got a job far away. only been with 2 guys so far hard to judge that It's quite easy really. You are simply not in a position to see it. Go watch the movie "Trust". You will see.
WeatherMe Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 At 15 you have a credit card to become an established member? If your parents gave you their credit card for this, they are not keeping an eye on this? There are a fair amount of "grownup" forums on here... I would be very watchful of my 15 year old daughter. Though I wouldn't allow it to begin with. As far as a 25 year old man with a 15 year old girl. Sorry but when I was 25 15 year olds were children and the idea of being with one seriously... No thanks. If you think this hugging and kissing thing is the only thing he wants - you are sadly mistaken. Be careful and good luck. Hope he gets caught.
oaks Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 hope not, no kids till 30 please Then you're going to have to learn to be comfortable with words like "stop" and "no". With good guys you don't have to say them very often, but you still have to be firm! Having read your other comments, I think he likes you because you've got boobs and because you're very young and because he thinks he'll get to have sex with you. I'm not sure how to explain to you why 'society' generally thinks that's wrong. I'm a little concerned that someone his age would be dating someone your age and I really think you should stick to teenagers.
Author angel_tenniser Posted July 24, 2011 Author Posted July 24, 2011 It's quite easy really. You are simply not in a position to see it. Go watch the movie "Trust". You will see. ok i'll watch it I don't think angel_tenniser is a real person. i know nobody believes i could be 15, whenever people meet me they think 18. At 15 you have a credit card to become an established member? If your parents gave you their credit card for this, they are not keeping an eye on this? There are a fair amount of "grownup" forums on here... I would be very watchful of my 15 year old daughter. Though I wouldn't allow it to begin with. As far as a 25 year old man with a 15 year old girl. Sorry but when I was 25 15 year olds were children and the idea of being with one seriously... No thanks. If you think this hugging and kissing thing is the only thing he wants - you are sadly mistaken. Be careful and good luck. Hope he gets caught. maybe me him and me can stick to online mostly. Then you're going to have to learn to be comfortable with words like "stop" and "no". With good guys you don't have to say them very often, but you still have to be firm! Having read your other comments, I think he likes you because you've got boobs and because you're very young and because he thinks he'll get to have sex with you. I'm not sure how to explain to you why 'society' generally thinks that's wrong. I'm a little concerned that someone his age would be dating someone your age and I really think you should stick to teenagers. i do but teenagers are rough on dates its happened heaps like they have no finesse. i might say no but with him he is really a mindreader and knows how i feel. i enjoy talking online to him and its fun to be undressed talking to him in bed, so maybe stick to that mostly and less risk that way
ScreamingTrees Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 (edited) Without any further information, regardless of who's older, I'd say a relationship between a 15 year old and a 24 year old wouldn't work, and above all isn't legal because it's a much older person preying on a child. You're essentially barely out of middle school, and he's possibly out of college by now. That's a HUGE difference, and there are millions of fish in the sea. Let this one go. He's likely got major problems to be making moves on a girl who's much younger.. Regardless of how big your cleavage is, I think you can usually tell between a 15 year old girl and girl in her 20s.. I know I can, for the most part. And even if there wasn't a big difference in how females of either age looked, there'd still be a major difference in their maturity and mentality/intellect. Makes me wonder why a man OR woman would go for someone who's obviously undeveloped mentally and can't make big decisions for themselves. Also, if kids your age are that bad, just don't date. Pick up a book, get a hobby, make some girlfriends and go see a movie. Seriously, you're 15 and have PLENTY of time to deal with this ****. You know what masturbation is, correct? It's actually GOOD for you, physically, regardless of your gender. Isn't that a better alternative to getting knocked up? Or do you want to be on TV with this slimeball? Edited July 24, 2011 by ScreamingTrees
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