How can people be so mean?

[without]

I can't understand ,how can you be so close ,saying those words,sharing that much memories,yet still leaving that person...I think that's the cruelest thing one can do..heartless people..

I know they are wrong ones we were with but some of them knew we weren't right for them and got so close to us,that's unbearable.(for those that though they have found the one.)

I still think if we love someone we can't be able to break their hearts like this.

Edited July 23, 2011 by without

[Casablanca]

I can't understand ,how can you be so close ,saying those words,sharing that much memories,yet still leaving that person...I think that's the cruelest thing one can do..heartless people..

I know they are wrong ones we were with but some of them knew we weren't right for them and got so close to us,that's unbearable.(for those that though they have found the one.)

I still think if we love someone we can't be able to break their hearts like this.

Its not like the dumper typically gets any kind of pleasure out of breaking the person they are seeing's heart...the hardest thing I have ever had to do was break up with someone who I was/use to be in love with and they were in love with me

 

Ive never had to break up with anyone who cheated on me or treated me badly, so it was never easy

[without]

so what caused the break up?I mean if you got a clue that it's not gonna work out,it's not fair to get too close to them.

[Sugarkane]

Unfortunately some people do get a kick out of ripping someone's heart out. Just read the thread "kick you while you're down" or read my posts.

[Nohbody]

Careless and thoughtless are words we like to throw around, but I think that when people have decided to jump ship that's more or less the state they are in. They are focused on themselves, their immediate gratification, and for whatever reason the person they were with is some kind of unpleasant company that must be avoided at all cost.

 

Or so a guy on the phone told me.