SteelWall Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 Okay, embarrassing but true question, I am ready to date. I am very intelligent which dwindles potential prospects, because many men seem to want to game only the less intelligent, the ones they can manipulate and do not have to put much effort toward. But back to the question. For some time I have learned just with non physical exp. and some physical, tricks and treats of giving the best BJ ever! Makes a man go over the edge....to the point of not being able to handle so much pleasure. I have seen bits of the best of porn and they the professionals were doing a horrible job! So my dilemma is if I date someone for awhile and end up doing this....and it is sooo over the top phenomenal...they may think wayward thoughts...like wow were has she been. Would you guys think like that? Or just enjoy the perks....and not question where this girl learned such mastery? And...I am being serious here...lol. And no I will not give up my tricks.
somedude81 Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 Any chance you live in California? No I would never think less of a girl for giving an awesome BJ. I would just think she has natural talent and enjoys giving pleasure.
Author SteelWall Posted July 23, 2011 Author Posted July 23, 2011 Ummm no...no way to lie about it....can determine when I decide to let it happen in secs or minutes...if nature has not already succumbered. I know what sloppy or average boring 'gets the trick done' BJs are. They should not be a chore....but played classicly...a musical instrument....technique very unique....effortless..rhythmic dance.....makes it fun:) Ha Ha...nope not Cali....
Author SteelWall Posted July 23, 2011 Author Posted July 23, 2011 Was a little worried if a guy get a one in a million unimaginably fabulous BJ, if he would wonder wow has this chick been around....when in actual I have not been around the block..lol. I just study things...think alot...and have found the recipe for the perfect BJ....one has probably not experienced before...just if i do find someone I care about...would hate to ruin it...if they would internalize it that way.
Author SteelWall Posted July 23, 2011 Author Posted July 23, 2011 What is up with you Dasein...not flowery....anyways have already had to use i read it in a book......and yes it is the best BJ ever...sorry just telling the truth! But, am getting out there newly again and because it is so amazing....just hope someone, if I care about more than FWBs, would not get the wrong impression...if they are in it more than just a lay.
Feelin Frisky Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 It's a turn off in itself to have someone else think they know everything and the receiver is bound to just fulfill their expectations of it being the best. And only some paranoid repressed dude is going to be calculating while this is going on that you've learned what you know by blowing everyone. Do yourself a favor and expect to take cues from what a guy wants and not come on with an attitude that you're in control. You're not in control of his pleasure, he is. What gets me off best is her hand work and no amount of pigeon-heading is likely to do the trick. Some other guy might blow in 30 seconds that way. No one has the universal way to please everyone.
Author SteelWall Posted July 23, 2011 Author Posted July 23, 2011 It is all in the hand work motion....and other additions...not just the up and down up and down...ect. But, would never let someone know I was in control, not the issue. This is good...so coming to some conclusion,that a woman being ultra fabulous in the bedroom will not make a man think she must have been around the block, but she is just naturally talented.
Sebstian Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 Nobody will judge you badly for it that's for sure. I go down on girls as often as I can and is often told I'm really very good at it. I think this comes down to 2 things. A) I f..... love it and do it as much me as for her, which makes her feel really comfortable about her self and seeing me top horny makes it ok for her to let loose. B) I don't have any predescribed success formula. I feel and listen to what she likes. Some like it harder some softer, some only in this particular spot, others everywhere else. So do yourself a favour, do it for you to get off and be very attentive to what seems to get him off. I have tried awful bjs where she was convinced that her usual 'technique' would do the trick. Don't see it as some special gift for him, saved for a special day. That whole mindset is flawed as it says that you don't do it for your own pleasure - nobody will thank you for it. If you find a confident guy (which is what you want for sure), he'll be fine with you doing it early on, often and moan with pleasure while you do it. Oh and being intelligent is major turn on for me, as long as we don't have to talk career and boring logic stuff all night. I would love to find somebody smarter than me!
123321 Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 You are generalizing men and d-cks badly in a sexist way LOL, but unlike zealots here, will let you slide for that "despicable sexism." Seriously, every guy is different, every tool is different, the flowery way you talk leads me to believe you don't actually have much real world experience but lots of wishful thinking. Don't worry about guys thinking you are a ho because you give a good hummer. Or if it is a big deal to you, just ask "was that good? I saw it in a movie!" when you are finished. Problem solved. What he said. Good you have big plans though, a good BJ is a must have for any relationship in my opinion. One tip: If you can DT then nice, if not, try to develop the ability. It's an amazing sensation.
oaks Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 Is your question "If I give a good bj will he think I'm a slut?" Is so, then my answer is no. However, in case it's important, I'm old enough to hope that the people I get into those situations with aren't complete novices.
123321 Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 It is all in the hand work motion....and other additions...not just the up and down up and down...ect. Yeah, you've never done this have you?
Author SteelWall Posted July 23, 2011 Author Posted July 23, 2011 Yeah, you've never done this have you? Done what:bunny: lol. Umm...yes. But straight up and down....a man can do himself and probably with a much better grip. I know and hear from many women who talk girl stuff and hate doing it...find it a chore. I do not....love it...actually. I like to make a man senseless for a few moments:) Cannot and will not describe my techniques, but they are good and I am sure of....quite unique because of reaction. The reaction of the man losing total control.....
Eddie Edirol Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 Okay, embarrassing but true question, I am ready to date. I am very intelligent which dwindles potential prospects, because many men seem to want to game only the less intelligent, the ones they can manipulate and do not have to put much effort toward. But back to the question. For some time I have learned just with non physical exp. and some physical, tricks and treats of giving the best BJ ever! Makes a man go over the edge....to the point of not being able to handle so much pleasure. I have seen bits of the best of porn and they the professionals were doing a horrible job! So my dilemma is if I date someone for awhile and end up doing this....and it is sooo over the top phenomenal...they may think wayward thoughts...like wow were has she been. Would you guys think like that? Or just enjoy the perks....and not question where this girl learned such mastery? And...I am being serious here...lol. And no I will not give up my tricks. The easiest way to not worry about this is, after youve slept with a guy for a couple months, and you know hes into you for a real relationship, then you hit him with this allegedly great bj. If he wonders about it, then you tell him about the book. Only an azzhole will question you if you already told him about the book, or questions you about how many guys you did this to.
thatone Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 Yeah, you've never done this have you? yeah, that was my first thought. hint to the OP: the part your hand is on is just the piece of meat that holds the top of it in the air, it doesn't "do" anything.
Knittress Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 Are you not wanting to talk about your super-special top secret techniques for fear that all the other women will nod and say "Oh, yeah, that... common knowledge?"
123321 Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 Are you not wanting to talk about your super-special top secret techniques for fear that all the other women will nod and say "Oh, yeah, that... common knowledge?" I actually laughed in real life, thank you.
Fondue Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 From my personal experience with fellating women, every single one of them that said "I'm very good at it" turned out to be awful. Those women that never mentioned the act, or pretended to be shy about it, were very GOOD. Besides, there isn't one set way to do the act. Many men prefer different things-- some of which many women cannot do. I don't want to get too graphic...
mitchell Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 For someone so "intelligent", this is a silly question. I'm sure you've created/invented some fantastic BJ technique that nobody else ever considered in the past thousands of years. While I don't doubt that you might give a good BJ, your hubris is a turn-off.
Lucky_One Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 After reading your posts with the misspellings, the horrible grammar and the excessive and incorrect use of ellipses, I am coming to the conclusion that it is not your intelligence that limits your dating, but your over-inflated sense of yourself and your belief that you give the best BJs of recorded history. JMHO
Author SteelWall Posted July 25, 2011 Author Posted July 25, 2011 Ha ha are some of you really getting all bent out of shape because of a simple question. Yes I have a unique technique...so why taunt or question. That was not the point of my original question. I do not care if you think I have the talent or not. My only question, is because it is so unique and fantastic, if from a man's point of view....not their point of view if they think I can, irrelevant, but if they would wonder wow I wonder how many of those she gave before? Ect. So haters do not reply.
zengirl Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 Ha ha are some of you really getting all bent out of shape because of a simple question. Yes I have a unique technique...so why taunt or question. That was not the point of my original question. I do not care if you think I have the talent or not. My only question, is because it is so unique and fantastic, if from a man's point of view....not their point of view if they think I can, irrelevant, but if they would wonder wow I wonder how many of those she gave before? Ect. So haters do not reply. You are hilarious! :lmao::lmao: So unique and fantastic! This thread cracks me up.
Author SteelWall Posted July 25, 2011 Author Posted July 25, 2011 After reading your posts with the misspellings, the horrible grammar and the excessive and incorrect use of ellipses, I am coming to the conclusion that it is not your intelligence that limits your dating, but your over-inflated sense of yourself and your belief that you give the best BJs of recorded history. JMHO Yikes...how hateful you are. I have never mentioned having limits to my dating, but thank you for your obnoxious innuendos. I do have intelligence and yes I have high self esteem, but very short of being over-inflated. Sorry, I am not blabbering that I am of low intelligence and have low self esteem. I refuse to argue intelligence. Intelligence is unique in that you cannot accurately gauge it by someone's forum posts. No, I do not hoover over what I write in order to perfect it's punctuation and vocab so others will think I am smart. I do not care if you do. So I will definitely say I am of low intelligence if that leads to you not replying to my posts. :D:D
azsinglegal Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 Ha ha are some of you really getting all bent out of shape because of a simple question. Yes I have a unique technique...so why taunt or question. That was not the point of my original question. I do not care if you think I have the talent or not. My only question, is because it is so unique and fantastic, if from a man's point of view....not their point of view if they think I can, irrelevant, but if they would wonder wow I wonder how many of those she gave before? Ect. So haters do not reply. What makes it so "unique and fantastic". IMO, if it ends with an orgasm, and I can still feel my jaw, my job is done.
Dblock10 Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 i find this a funny topic. like personally i love a good bj and its surprising that the girls i thought would be amazing at it werent so great and the ones that i thought wouldnt turned out to be amazing. one girl told me she had never done it before, so i didnt know what to expect. i swear it was one of the best ive ever ever had. wowsers
Author SteelWall Posted July 25, 2011 Author Posted July 25, 2011 You are hilarious! :lmao::lmao: So unique and fantastic! This thread cracks me up. Thanxs Zen! And to the haters...well you can just, 'blow me.":laugh:
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