bigjohn639 Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 I've kind of gotten sick of awkward situations when I tell people this, but I had been dating my best friend's 15 year old sister for two months until Tuesday when she tells me that she isn't ready for a relationship. Understandable, as I am 19. Before I go into more detail, I'd just like to say that anything that references me as a pedophile will not discourage me, as I am not in this for sex in any way, shape or form. The concept makes me sick, and that so many people initially think that this is the cause of us are the ones who have something wrong with them. Anyway, enough negativity . Her parents and her brother (my best friend, as above) were so, so fine with me dating her. This reason being that she's apparently had a big crush on me for nearly three years, but until now hasn't shown it towards me (all of this according to her mother). I'd not had a chance to speak to her until February this year, where at her brother's party we got to know each very well and afterwards began talking a lot more until April, where I told her how much I cared for her. Everything up until Tuesday had been going so well, and there hadn't been any changes in communication with her up until then. Things were literally perfect, as I'd imagined and hoped they'd be. Nothing was heavy or deep, as such... but she still showed me affection. Up until the end, she had been the one to initiate conversation and seemed very happy to do so, all the time. I'm under the impression that things are nowhere near over between her and I. I still have a deep attraction to her, and she has told me that she still does indeed 'like' me, and since Tuesday we've spoken on the phone for over four hours. She's kind of busy this weekend, but I asked her if she wanted to go to the art gallery (like we'd organized the weekend before) still, and she said she'd make time in her schedule to fit it in. I really, really don't want to lose her. I never want to see her with anybody else, and if she still likes me after how I poured my heart out to her on the phone on Tuesday, well... personally, I can't think of any reason why we should drift apart. Sure, there are so many things stacked against us being together, but so far other barriers like her parents and society's perception of a 19 year old and 15 year old together haven't stopped us being together. What do you guys think?
robdrm32 Posted July 23, 2011 Posted July 23, 2011 stop contacting her. don't "pour your heart out" to her. let her come to you. no amount of convincing or talking will make her want to be with you again. Whatever her reasons, she decided to not be with you. I know its hard but just accept it and move on. If she tries to contact you, keep it short and be too busy for her.
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